Abstract: Everyone’s life can always learn and grow, even if you are a slow learner. Virginia Satya (1916-1988) was a world-renowned psychotherapist and family therapist. The following parenting quotes from Satya, shared by the author, are classic and thought-provoking. 15 parenting quotes 1.Being an emotionally stable mother is the best gift for your child; 2.When a child feels that his parents do not love him, in fact, the parents do not know how to love him; 3.In the family, the child’s sense of security mainly comes from the mother, while the self-concept of “who I am and how I am” comes from the Dad. As a parent, you give your child enough psychological nutrition; 4, let go is when a child already has such an autonomy, must let go; 5, encouragement is no purpose, is from the heart, when the father has to do so that the child can not understand things, do not need to speak for the father, but only to show the child: such a father how I get along with him, how I accept him; 6, if I can help myself. If I can help myself and make me happy and harmonious, then this is also the greatest gift to my child; 7. Believing in my child is believing that he must be the best he can be in the moment, believing that he is as pure and beautiful as he is, believing that his life will bring out the best in him in line with the essence of his life. Instead of believing that he can do what he needs to do to satisfy his parents without their guidance and reminders; 8. Parental relationships are a parent’s own business, and a child doing well for himself is the greatest help to his parents; 9. Deviant behavior is a cry for help because there is a longing inside that cannot be satisfied: safety and love; 10. A child lies because he/she needs to lie. If a child feels safe enough in front of adults, he/she will be willing to tell the truth. Are you a parent who makes your child feel safe enough; 11, the relationship between husband and wife has a great impact on the child: (1) affects the child’s sense of intimacy, even carried to the child’s new family later; (2) affects the child’s sense of responsibility, making the child a family saver, incompetent or indifferent; (3) affects the child’s sense of security. 12. Emotions are a kind of energy. If there is a lot of emotional garbage inside that is not dealt with, it will accumulate and then incessantly look for an outlet, and the deviant behavior of children is one of the manifestations. Learn to be the master of your own emotions, become consistent with the body and mind, then you can teach your child to do so; 13, if parents or other family members tension, the child accumulated a lot of emotions, anxiety and pain will lead to self-injury, such as scratching hair or hitting sharp objects, using the “physiological feedback method” that self-harm to To relieve the internal anxiety and pain. Parents should pay more attention to children who are prone to accidents or injuries, and help children to express their emotions in a better way; 14. An optimistic, calm and emotionally stable mother will usually make her child feel safe, comfortable and happy to explore the outside world. Are you the emotionally stable mom; 15. “Do I like myself? I don’t know if my career will be successful tomorrow, but even if it’s not, can I still appreciate and respect myself?” After 25, let’s learn to be like a plant, with just sunshine and air. Learn to be nurturing, to accept and nourish ourselves unconditionally, and to nourish others at the same time.