The contradictions of intergenerational parenting are sure to exist, after all, all kinds of scientific knowledge is still very scarce in that era, the old people’s knowledge of parenting are folk methods passed down from generation to generation, we should first understand the hard work of the elderly, on this basis step by step to ease the contradictions. 1, armed with science when the disagreement with the elderly, the mother must be armed with science, using scientific language to explain to the elderly, when you come up with the facts, after the reasoning, the elderly will not be so stubborn, after all, we are all for the good of the baby. 2, pull on the husband to do backup husband in the mitigation of the two generations of conflict will play a huge role, when the disagreement with the mother-in-law, do not forget to pull on the husband to do backup, their own can not communicate with the husband and mother-in-law, this will get twice the result with half the effort. 3, intentionally or unintentionally to instill science to the elderly When you read some news about raising a baby, you may also read to the elderly to listen to, so they know how much damage unscientific practices to the baby, subtle influence on the family of the elderly, slowly they can accept the way the mother. 4, avoid arguing with the elderly arguing to ease the differences is not a little good, calm communication is the best solution, arguing will only intensify the conflict, for the baby and affect the family harmony is a particularly unworthy thing.