We all say that children “bear” is a sign of intelligence, many parents and old people do not know why, but also in the child after the naughty to praise: so smart, will certainly have a future! So there are all kinds of spoiled brats out there. Spoiled children are a curse when they grow up. So what kind of child is called “spoiled” and what is called “smart”? To give you a list of several characteristics, if the child is so, it is not a good sign oh! 1, the outsiders tantrums children have “self-centered” cognitive, so often in the home tantrums. But if you lose your temper in front of outsiders, it is likely to feel that he is the center of the universe in his heart, is a bad sign. 2, with your things and you negotiate a lot of smart children will use their own labor in exchange for benefits, such as “I wash the dishes to take me to the zoo” and so on, this is very equal and wise practice. However, if he uses things that do not belong to him, such as “take me to the zoo on the return of your cell phone”, belongs to the disguised robbery, do not let the child get away with it, or it will set up a robber logic view. 3, do not share with other children This is actually to blame parents, in fact, all is the problem of parents. “Sharing” is not something that needs to be taught, unless the parents always emphasize to the child “don’t let people touch your toys”. 4. Controlling parents How to distinguish between “petting” and “controlling”? It’s easy. If a child says, “I want to ……,” it’s just plain old petulance. If the child says “you don’t want ……”, it is control. For example, “you do not want to read” “you do not watch TV” and so on, if you do not comply with him, he is lightly angry, heavy destruction. 5, can not meet We often say that people are “never satisfied”. But this “never satisfied” is to their own strict requirements, not to others strict requirements. If the child is always difficult to meet, for example, never satisfied with toys, food is not satisfied, then we must teach him to “their own pursuit of better”, rather than trying to meet him.