As a clinical psychologist who has been engaged in clinical counseling for nearly 20 years, I receive about seven or eight counseling appointments daily about children’s reluctance to go to school. For this situation, teachers are helpless, parents are sweating, and it is really painful for children to go to school. Some children, once they go to school, become physically uncomfortable, have headaches, chest congestion, heartburn, abdominal pain, nausea and vomiting, and some children even have seizures when they go to school. But because the base of adolescents is relatively high, the absolute number is still quite a lot, there is no physical thing, whether the psychological abnormalities, some parents bring their children to see a psychiatrist: from my contact with a large number of cases of children who should go to school and not go to school, the most appearing is 1, is the child’s mental health – anxiety and depression. In the general population is more common, in adolescents are not immune, the child is often inattentive in class, the brain is slow to respond, listen to the lecture, not interested in learning, or see the classmates can learn very well, they can not learn, impatient temper tantrums, ruminations, sometimes negative pessimistic thoughts, of course, there are children appear hallucinations delusions, self-talk, sensitive and suspicious more serious mental illness This situation is more difficult to go to school, for children who are not mentally healthy to go to school, I usually say is like a person suffering from a bad cold, but also forced to do physical work as difficult, but also very inhumane, so, for children do not go to school, parents should first take the child to see whether the child’s mental health. 2, children do not go to school is meaningful, children often do not go to school to remind the family problems, I sometimes say, the child is no problem if the child has a problem then the problem must come from the parents, if the husband and wife tension is not to say, the child can also feel, this situation The significance of children do not go to school is to remind the family problems, family problems improved, the child’s school problems will be solved. The family problem can be solved. Once the child knows why he or she is not going to school, the child’s problem can be solved, but of course, this situation requires the patience and inspiration of a psychologist to help improve it. There are many reasons – as parents to respect, patiently listen to the inner voice of the child, if your child has any trouble in learning, I am willing to help children and parents to solve together.