Many times, mothers and fathers want to have some interaction with their babies in order to achieve the role of enhancing the relationship. But many times, will choose to tease the baby to play, but will ignore the existence of some teasing action is dangerous. Now let’s explore what way to tease the baby most dangerous, mom and dad should pay attention! 1, throwing and catching children – easy cervical dislocation First-time fathers, it is natural to stir up fond memories of being thrown around by their own dads when they were young. The impression is that this way of teasing the baby is very common, and there is even the argument that you can exercise the baby’s guts. First of all, this claim is not scientific. Throw your baby up high, and then catch him with both hands after he gets down. Fathers feel that the baby will feel very exciting fun, like playing roller coasters. In fact, the baby’s mind is not mature, some babies will not only feel fun, and even scared. If thrown too high, although the baby’s weight is relatively light, but due to the role of gravitational acceleration, falling to the catch point, the force is still not small, in a hurry, adults then want to catch the baby, the finger is likely to poke the baby, if the poke to the eyes and other vulnerable parts, the damage is even greater, in case there is no catch baby, the consequences are even more unimaginable. 2, turning circles – easy to dislocate, fractures This way of interaction with the baby, usually with the adult as the center, hands grabbing the baby’s two wrists, and then the adult quickly 360 degrees around, the baby will follow in mid-air rotation. In this process, the baby is subjected to centrifugal force. The baby is still in a very fragile period of the body. On the one hand, this action can easily lead to dislocation of the baby’s wrist or elbow joint, on the other hand, after the end of the rapid rotation, the baby is easy to dizzy after landing, will certainly be unstable, thus falling down and injured. Therefore, when interacting with your baby, be sure to slow down and be extra careful. Once the baby appears panic, crying, do not do it again. 3, open mouth catch – foreign body stuck in the throat As the name implies, is the adult to the baby’s direction to throw a relatively small food, so that the baby open mouth to catch swallowed. This playful way is very dangerous and should never be done. Generally, the food being thrown is relatively small in size and has a certain degree of hardness. Such as peanuts, beans and other foods. Once successfully caught with the mouth, in a smile between a suction is likely to choke directly into the trachea, light cough, heavy choking, which has a certain degree of danger for adults, not to mention the baby has not yet grown. Open mouth catch this little game is really too dangerous, do not do. 4, pinch the baby’s face – squeeze the parotid gland Seeing the baby’s delightful appearance, many people can not help but pinch the baby’s face to show that they like. Although pinching the cheeks looks like a small action, but this seemingly harmless action, the potential damage to the baby is very big. If the infant’s parotid glands and parotid ducts are squeezed again and again, it will lead to frequent drooling and oral mucositis and other diseases. 5, pinch nose – damage to the nasal mucosa and blood vessels Some parents think that pinching the baby’s nose is a kind of love, like to pinch the baby’s nose to tease the baby, and some parents think that the baby’s nose is flat, think that this can also pinch the baby into a high nose. Baby’s skin is very sensitive, the body’s immunity is also poor, especially the nasal mucosa is very fragile! If you pinch your baby’s nose frequently, it is easy to have serious damage to the nasal mucosa, which in turn is susceptible to bacterial and viral attacks. At the same time, the baby’s Eustachian tube is thicker, shorter, straighter, and lower than that of adults, so pinching the nose can cause nasal secretions to enter the middle ear through the Eustachian tube and cause otitis media. 6, “catching chicks” – easy infection For whatever reason, some adults like to tease their baby boys to find their “penis” or use their hands to pinch and touch their baby boys’ The “penis” and shout “catch the chickens ~ catch the chickens ~” is not happy …… not to mention that this way of amusement is very indecent, but also very easy for the baby to develop the habit of touching the genitals The most important thing is that this behavior is likely to get the baby infected because of the bacteria on the hands. And now there are so many pedophiles, maybe among acquaintances, so parents must firmly stop, and try to put on the baby’s chaps or diapers when they go out. In addition to these dangerous ways to tease the baby will let the baby body hurt, there are some teasing baby way, I believe many parents are not unfamiliar, these ways will let not only the body, the mind will also be hurt, this harm more. 1, cheat children deliberately teach children to call the wrong person is a lot of adults teasing children’s usual tricks. For example, let the child call the obvious “uncle” as “grandfather”, deliberately teach the child to call “uncle” as “aunt The child will be taught to call “uncle” as “auntie”, or “auntie” as “grandmother”, etc. The child’s wrong name can naturally lead to laughter around the people, but you know what the child thinks in his heart? He will be at a loss and slowly begin to distrust others. 2, scare many relatives will scare children, and even some parents will do so, such as words such as “you do not listen, mom and dad never come back!” …… may seem like a joke, but for children it seems like a nightmare, their age is not yet able to distinguish the truth of the words, only to add a lot of anxiety in the heart. 3, lure “Go and hit Uncle Li a little, I’ll buy you something delicious.” “Take a sip of white wine and see if you are a man.” Adults use material and language to induce children to do bad things, and often accompanied by “really brave”, “good” or some material rewards, and the children who have done “bad things” will also be smug. 4, teasing Some adults think that children will not resist, like to hang on the child’s defects in the mouth, and even give them a nickname. I do not know, the child heard such a whistle, will feel that they are not respected. Children grow up in such an environment, of course, will not know how to respect others. Tips: How can parents respond when their children are teased? When relatives and friends tease our children, what should adults do? It may not be good to refuse because of the emotion, and if parents do not stand up to stop it, it will cause harm to the child. But how to stop it also needs to be wise, neither to hold back, nor to lose their temper with others a big fight, can be very wise excuse to take the child away, or directly say that the child is not quite used to such a way of communication. When adults hear such words, they are generally more aware. In this case, the parents’ reaction is also an example for the child. Our children do not live in a vacuum and will always encounter scenarios they do not like, this is the environment he has to live in, how to strengthen the inner strength and easily learn to cope is also a learning curve. As long as parents do not act as accomplices, not silent, as long as parents can stand behind their children to give him some support and help, to do his back, to play a model role for children, teach children how to communicate with others, how to express their views and feelings. By the time the child grows up, he will know how to deal with it. Do not hold the mentality that if anyone teases our child, we will not be done with him, or even tear his face off. If you start off with a lot of hostility, you are slipping to the other extreme. And it sends a message to the child that no one should mess with me! This is also bad, the child can not be teased at all, and that is certainly not a good thing.