Abstract: Do you want your child to thrive? Not only should they be physically well, but also psychologically well in order to do so, but there are parents who have an educational style that will certainly ruin their children. Be sure to be vigilant, against the baby parents whether you are the following education style? 1, talent VS quality Different families have different family education, domestic parents generally focus on children’s talent education, as evidenced by the annual summer classes; foreign parents, less kindergarten full support, the basic quality of children’s training more attention, and instilled in their children through word and example. 2.Intelligence vs. physical ability Knowing how many words, how many Tang poems can be memorized, how many songs can be played, is always something that most domestic parents focus on and take as a talking point. Some parents also say that their children’s happiness is the most important, but the implementation is often out of their hands; foreign parents pay more attention to their children’s physical development, they believe that, in addition to the happiness of children in childhood, is also a good time to develop physical fitness, in order to cope with a more heavy burden in the future to lay a good foundation. 3, disregard for children’s privacy and rights Parents should knock first to enter their children’s rooms, move or use their children’s things should get permission, and any decisions involving their children should be discussed with them first. All the rights of the child should be respected, and he should be treated as an adult to respect. This respect begins at birth with diaper changes. Before changing the diaper, tell him pleasantly that it is time to change the diaper and ask him to bear with it. People who are not respected do not know how to respect others later. 4. Shape your child according to your own standards Many parents put their lifelong hopes on their children and keep forcing them to go down the path they think is right. Even if the child doesn’t fit in, or doesn’t like it. Under such pressure, the family becomes unhappy and the pleasant time of parent-child becomes a struggle conference. The harmonious parent-child relationship is sacrificed, and the child is allowed to pursue some inexplicable and not necessarily correct ideals of the parents. 5, think that the more hard work, the better Many parents think that school grades mean everything. Once the goal is clearly set, the rest of the parent’s job is to use all the coercion and enticement and begging to reach that goal. In fact, school grades do not mean everything, but rather the overall ability (energy, perseverance, character, etc.) is the important factor that affects their life. 6, think it’s good to get up early and sleep lazily Growing up children need adequate sleep. Many children get up at 6:00 and sleep less than 8 hours a day, and the nation is still promoting the misconception that getting up early is healthy. Insufficient sleep can affect development and brain power can be diminished. Therefore our children need adequate sleep.