What should a father look like? Some people say: When you are young, he is your protector; when you are a teenager, he is the obstacle that blocks your eyes; when you are young, you will feel that he has become shorter and you are taller than him; when you are middle-aged, you will look again and you will find that he has been silently watching you. Your pride, your arrogance and selfishness, he is silently accommodating, you will heart sore, you will dawn. As the years go by, the image of fatherhood is always changing in our hearts, and the expression of fatherly love is not one color, it is diverse, it is stern, silent, forgiving, bearing, and letting go …… Today, I would like to share with you a story about “letting go” of fatherly love – “Me and Dad”. The main characters of the story are the cute little dinosaur Luo Li and his dad. The big dinosaur father does not smile, no flexible body language, even the face is simple almost only two small black dots, he is happy or worried, we can not see, but, so strange, this does not affect us feel his warm, lingering strong fatherly love. Every “bear child” has a striking similarity in that they are always messing around, always energetic, and never tired. Even if he scribbled and drew on dad’s favorite book and did a lot of little damage, dad was not anxious or annoyed. Dad was always with little Rory, and their time together was always happy and wonderful. But occasionally Dad wanted a little space for himself, like listening to music or reading a book on a sunny afternoon, and it was a great thing to not have the little kid bothering him. So, the bored little Raleigh plans to “run away from home” and start their own adventure. Faced with his child’s independence, his father, like all parents in the world, may be both relieved and apprehensive. In the end, he did not stop him, nor did he let him go, but chose the hardest but most loving way …… When Luo Li wanted to cross the river, Dad quietly dived down into a sturdy little bridge; little Luo Li even scared the vicious wild boar! In fact, he is “foxes and tigers” Oh. In preparation for dinner, coconut drinks fell from the sky. It turns out that the sky can also fall pie… Want to take shelter from the rain, Dad hung in the middle of the tall coconut trees, transformed into a natural rain barrier. When the rain cleared, Luo Li found a rainbow for the first time by himself, which reminded him that after every rainstorm, he would find a rainbow to share with his dad. So he returned home along the same road. Little Luo Li told his dad everything about his adventure on the way. “I won’t be in such a hurry to leave home again.” “I don’t want you to worry too much about me, Dad!” “Well, that sounds good.” Papa Luo Li responded softly. Although covered in fatigue and mud, his heart must have been relieved. I think Dad would never tell little Luo Li how he could be so “smooth” and great. He would rather his son remember how brave and determined he was every time he rose to the challenge; he didn’t need to remind his son how dangerous the outside world was, so that Luo Li was afraid to go ahead; he didn’t complain in front of Luo Li constantly, blaming his son for He will not easily solve all the difficulties for him in front of Luo Li, so that the child is overly dependent on himself, and lose the ability to be independent. Because he knows that his son will eventually have to go alone on the road. What he wants to do is to fully let go, but also secretly care, this is the best love it. Perhaps when Luo Li becomes a big dinosaur as strong as himself, he can still remember that there is a simple, cute dad, patient and gentle, is quietly watching over his home, hoping that he will come back when the rain clears and share the beautiful rainbow he met on the road. You may say that in real life, many dads are absent in the family. You can let go of your child’s growth, but you cannot be absent. Because: Dads influence the formation of children’s personality qualities In daily life, mothers are always worried that their children will accidentally fall or get hurt when they do things like jumping down from high steps or racing with children, and they tend to criticize them severely and stop them. Fathers, on the other hand, like to take their children running, swimming, rock climbing and playing ball, and will encourage their children’s risk-taking behaviors, which will invariably exercise their children’s willpower and help them develop independence, risk-taking and bravery. Dads influence their children’s cognitive development Dads generally encourage their children to do things with their own hands and brains, allowing them to disassemble various things or participate in repairing simple appliances, which stimulates their imagination, creativity and desire to learn. Mothers prefer to help their children do what they can and not allow them to do damage. And research has proven that children raised by their dads have higher IQs! Scientists at Yale University conducted a 12-year study of children from infants to teens and concluded that children raised by men have higher IQs, tend to do better in school, and are more likely to succeed in society. Fathers influence children’s behavior and emotions Research also proves that with a good father, children are more likely to grow up to be non-aggressive, have good self-esteem and behave appropriately. Children who have a father involved in their development are more resilient to stress and frustration, and are better at problem solving and adapting to their environment. And with a good father, children are less likely to suffer from depression. The famous psychologist Gerdi said, “Fathers are a unique presence and have a special power in raising children.” Hubbert, a famous British literary scholar, also said, “A father is better than 100 principals.” On the way of a child’s growth, a father should learn to let go, but don’t be easily absent. Let go, in order to give him strength, so that he can move forward independently in the future; not absent, because you are his father, there is no more important reason than this.