Many parents encounter a similar situation: around the age of two, babies start to say “no”, often disobeying adults and even doing things that adults forbid them to do. Is it because your baby has become a bad boy? Of course not. “Baby, let mommy help you put it on.” “I won’t!” “Baby, let’s eat.” “I don’t!” “Baby, drink water.” “I don’t!” Early in the morning, the mother and the two-year-old little Ho Ho’s dialogue began, the formerly well-behaved, docile little Ho Ho now simply became a “no no no” Mr.. Enter the first period of resistance at this time, the baby began the psychology of the “first period of resistance. Compared to a year old, at this time the baby’s self-awareness has increased, the ability to greatly improve in all aspects, they began to show the desire to be independent, eager to show “I can do, I grew up. Their defiant behavior is in most cases trying to show that they are an independent person, is a very normal expression of this period. The most important thing is to pay attention to meeting the needs of your baby’s independence, but also to give enough love and protection. Try this: 1. Try to let go when the baby refuses to help and asks to complete a task independently, in many cases, mom and dad can respect the baby’s wishes and meet the baby’s need for independence. For example, your baby wants to eat on his own. Although his movements may be unskilled, spill everywhere, or even break dishes, he should still be allowed to eat on his own. What mom and dad have to do is to encourage and remind tactfully from the sidelines: “Wow, baby knows how to scoop rice slowly and not to spill it, great!” You can also demonstrate it yourself, but be careful to go get a spoon again. Because trying to take the baby’s spoon over to demonstrate is likely to cause a raging storm; 2. Be careful with the wording When making requests to your baby, use more selective words to make your baby feel like he or she has the right to make his or her own choices. For example, ask your baby, “Do you want to stay home and build blocks or go out and play Twister?” “Do you want to eat an apple or drink some milk?” In addition, when we do not allow some of the baby’s behavior, as little as possible to say “no”. For example, if a baby tries to pull the fur of a pet bunny, instead of saying, “No! You won’t be allowed to play with the bunny if you pull it again.” Instead of saying, “No! You won’t be allowed to play with the bunny if you tug on it,” you should gently touch the bunny and show him how to do it: “The bunny likes to be gently touched, so you’ll play with it like this, right? Try it.” It is important to know that a lot of “no” in the mouth of the adults will have a reinforcing effect on the baby. Of course, you can also deliberately say something the other way around to make your child do what you want him to do. The things are small, but reflect the parents’ great wisdom; 3, preview the ending mom and dad can also use the way to say along with the little one to fight with the wisdom. For example, if you want your baby to eat something and your baby refuses to eat, your mother can say, “Oh, you don’t want to eat right now, so don’t eat. You’ll eat when you’re hungry. I’m going to eat a little more at this moment.” At this point, the baby sees the mother eat, it is likely to follow to eat. Tip: When it comes to safety issues, it is important to be decisive. Although babies have a strong desire to be independent, they have limited abilities and still need the protection of mom and dad, there is no doubt about it. When the baby wants to do something that has a safety issue, mom and dad must stop it. For example, if your baby has to help your mom carry a very hot dish, your mom has to stop it and tell him, “It’s very hot and will burn your hands very much.” At the same time, you can find another small job for your baby to complete.