Children who lack fatherly love have a worrying future A survey shows that even babies in a hazy state can show typical symptoms of “fatherless syndrome” such as restlessness, loss of appetite, depression and irritability due to lack of fatherly love. The younger the child is, the greater the risk of developing the syndrome, and children who grow up in families where both parents are present but lack a loving father are more likely to develop the syndrome. Children with the syndrome at an early age are two times more likely to drop out of high school, two times more likely to commit crimes, and three times more likely to grow up to be single mothers. Dad’s behavior is a poster child for learning! Psychologists surveyed the fathers of 398 offenders, 183 of whom were alcoholics and 120 of whom were gamblers, sexually permissive, and dishonest. More importantly, these fathers did not realize that their children could not grow up healthy without their influence. Dads spend more time with their children, and their children will be smarter! Researchers at Newcastle University in England spent half a century following 17,000 British babies born one week in March 1958. For example, the fathers were asked how much time they usually spent with their children, whether they read to them, went out with them, etc., and IQ tests were arranged for them when the children were 11 years old. The results showed that children who spent a lot of time with their fathers were more intelligent than children of the same age who did not spend much time with their fathers. How to be a good father? Dads should be around their children from the time they are first born. The first few months are crucial, especially the 5th month, when the baby’s familiar face recognition develops. Dads must be around their babies a lot so that becoming a familiar face to the baby establishes the basis for being able to interact well with them later. If you miss this period, then you need to spend more time and thought on your baby to make up for those missed times. More interaction with the child’s game play, riddles, storytelling …… After the baby grows up, such as when they start to learn to walk, run and jump, the father should do more interaction with the baby, generally speaking, this is the father’s strong point, may be more and the child to run, jump, climb, climb and other active games and intelligent games, if the father can participate more If the father can participate more in the child’s riddles, storytelling, maze walking, building blocks and other enlightening activities, then the child’s gains will be even greater. Competitive activities are also good, such as races and hide-and-seek, where children can gain the joy of success. Being with your child is not just about spending more time together, it’s about love and real companionship! When dads spend time with their children, they should not only have “quantity” (time and opportunities), but also focus on “quality” (to promote a deeper relationship between father and son and to accumulate happy memories). Fathers should deliberately arrange some time and carefully design how to spend with their children, so that the “love tank” between fathers and children can be filled up. A child is happy with the love and companionship of his father!