1. Don’t blame the public: don’t blame your child in public, but give him/her dignity in front of the public; 2. Don’t blame him/her if he/she is already ashamed of his/her fault; 3. The child will go to bed with frustration and loss and will either not be able to sleep at night or have nightmares; 4, do not blame the food: do not blame the child while eating. This time to blame the child, it is easy to cause the child’s spleen and stomach weakness; 5, celebrate not to blame: the child is particularly happy when not to blame him. When people are happy, the meridians are in a smooth state, if the child is suddenly blamed, the meridians will immediately hold back, which is very harmful to the child’s body; 6, grief is not to blame: do not blame the child when he cries; 7, disease is not to blame: do not blame the child when he is sick. Sickness is the most vulnerable time of the body, and children need more love and warmth from their parents, which is more therapeutic than any medicine.