While it is important for children to learn to exercise various abilities, there are some things that should not be done too early for children. It is right to do what is good for your child’s physical development at the right age. Today we will talk about a few things that children should not learn too early! Not too early Learning to write Many parents teach their children to write at an early age, and use the teaching of literacy and writing as an important criterion for choosing a kindergarten. Some individual kindergartens and street kindergartens teach children to write in order to meet this demand of parents, or even simply replace early education with writing and literacy. These practices are clearly inappropriate. In fact, writing is an extremely delicate skill. It requires intentional observation and analysis of words, breaking them down into multiple strokes, then synthesizing and summarizing their stroke order and structure, with the brain transmitting information and instructions to the hand, and combining the various strokes into words with the synergy of the hand, brain, and eye. It can be difficult for young children under the age of 6 to complete this complex process correctly. For this reason, we hope that parents and kindergartens will act in accordance with the age characteristics of young children and let them paint and draw more before they learn to write, and do more games and handicraft activities that require the participation and cooperation of various sensory organs, as well as let them do things on their own, such as tying shoelaces, buttoning and zipping, in order to promote the development of neurological functions, perception and kinesthetic sense of the hands, and improve the coordination of all parts of the body. The harm of writing too early for young children 1, easy to cause fatigue and finger bone deformity Writing is mainly through the coordinated movement of the small muscles of the fingers, finger bones and finger joints to complete the grip pen, control strokes and other hand-eye coordination action. Because of the late development of small muscles, the fine hand movements of young children are clumsy and uncoordinated, and children must use more force to hold the pen when writing, and younger children even hold the pen with their whole hand. Therefore, young children feel a great deal of strain when writing. It almost becomes a physical activity, plus the muscle strength and endurance of young children is relatively poor, the bones are also very soft, if children write for a long time, it is easy to cause fatigue and finger bone deformities. 2, may prevent the normal development of the spine The physiological curvature of the spine has not yet formed, the ossification process is not yet complete, the bones are very easy to deformation, so it is very important to train children at this stage to stand and walk in the correct posture, if children write for a long time, it is difficult to maintain the correct sitting posture, and easy to form a bow waist, bow sitting and twisted sitting and other bad sitting posture, which may lead to spinal deformation. 3, easy to cause nearsightedness Early writing of young children has a great impact on the eyesight of young children. Because young children’s optic nerves are not yet focused, they often have to put books very close to their eyes to see clearly. And because the eyes are generally focused on the tip of the pen and a very small area around it when writing, coupled with the low level of eye-hand coordination, children must stare closely at the tip of the pen to write a word, so the eyes will soon become astringent, fatigue, over time, causing a decline in the eye’s ability to adjust the focus and cause myopia. Experts believe that children can be literate early, but do not be too hasty about children writing. It is not advisable to learn sketching too early. The so-called sketching: simply put, monochrome painting is sketching. What we generally understand by sketching is a realistic sketch using pencil or charcoal, which is a light and dark shape. In the West, children usually learn sketching around the age of eleven or twelve, and slightly earlier in China than in the West. Children who have gone through early systematic art study can learn sketching after about ten years old (actual age), but they must be assisted by a lot of practice to improve. Children of different ages have different perceptions, expressions, and psychological reactions to things, so if you do not make a distinction and let children learn things that are beyond their age and understanding, you will kill a child’s original interest in drawing. Sketching is not only difficult for a seven or eight year old to understand, but also uninteresting to him, which not only wastes the child’s precious time, but also leads to the loss of the child’s interest in learning to draw. The harm of children learning sketching too early Sketching is very rational painting, for example: perspective has parallel perspective, angular perspective, circular perspective; light and dark have five tones, etc., these are not in line with the children’s stage of acceptance. If they only copy the light and darkness mechanically, they will easily develop the problem of conceptualization. It is like taking a function from junior high school to elementary school, which is difficult for children to understand because it is abstract and difficult to understand. At the same time, sketching is a skillful training, which is quite boring and will make children lose their interest in learning to draw and even hinder the development of their imagination and creativity. Children’s education is like planting vegetables: what kind of vegetables should be planted in what season, if we must take winter vegetables to plant in spring, I think the growth is not optimistic. Even if they are planted in greenhouses, the nutritional value of the vegetables must be different from that of the season. It is not advisable to learn to walk too early Normal time: about 1 year The harmful effects of learning to walk too early 1, affect the child’s physical development Infant bones in the gelatin, calcium less, soft bones, lower limb muscles and keep the arch of the small muscle group development is not complete, too early for the baby to learn to walk, the weight of the body will certainly increase the burden on the spine and lower limbs, over time, easy to make the spine and lower limbs deformation. Fat children should not learn to walk too early. 2, affect the child’s learning to crawl crawling practice for children’s development has very many benefits, but crawling than walking hard, and vision is not as high as walking to see far, if the child learns to walk too early, the child will not want to crawl and choose to walk, so the baby missed the golden period of crawling practice. 3, affect the child’s vision development because the baby’s vision development after birth is not yet sound, can only see clearly near objects, prematurely learn to walk, the child can not see distant objects, the need to adjust the diopter and focal length of the eyes to focus on the scene, which will produce a fatigue damage to the child’s delicate eyes, repeatedly can damage vision. It is not advisable to ride a bicycle too early Normal time: 5-6 years of age The dangers of premature: young children’s bones are in the developmental stage, plasticity is very strong, and muscle strength is very weak, when riding children’s cars, the lower limbs to spend a lot of force. If the legs are in a state of muscle tension for a long time, but also let the bones of the lower limbs for a long time under stress, very detrimental to the growth and development of the bones. Children’s tricycles currently on the market, the distance between the two pedals becomes wider, and the distance between the seat and the pedals is too long, some cars can not adjust this distance. Thus, when the child rides up, the feet and lower limbs very hard, over time the formation of the two knees protruding inside the expansion, the two lower limbs excessively outward, the formation of “X”-shaped legs, and even some children formed inside the eight feet. Not too early to learn roller skating (single row) Normal time: 7 years old before learning single-row skating The harmful effects of learning roller skating too early 1, legs easily lead to deformation As single-row skating needs to skim the legs to the outside, the bones of children under 7 years old are not yet mature, easy to lead to X-shaped legs; 7 years old before you can learn double-row skating. 2, easy to be injured when playing roller skating waist, knees, ankles need to force to support the body, once the force is not appropriate, these parts are very easy to be injured. Therefore, in general, children under 12 years old to play roller skating, to have professional guidance, and is not suitable for a long time to play roller skating. Not too early to learn to draw circles Normal time: after 1.5 years old began to draw continuous circles, two and a half years old before the circle closed. The dangers of premature: children drawing circles is actually a kind of doodling, which is the spontaneous behavior of children. Do not teach your child to draw circles and other shapes in advance, as this will likely hinder your child’s enthusiasm for creativity and constrain his or her imagination. It is not advisable to learn drawing skills too early, but the normal time: after 8-9 years old. Before the age of 9, especially before the age of 6, children are in the “sensory realism” stage, when they draw what is in their mind. Children draw to express their thoughts and tell their feelings and discoveries through painting. If children are taught adult drawing skills too early, it may hinder their enthusiasm for creativity and is not conducive to the development of imagination.