Preface: When I was a child, my parents’ angry “words” were like thorns in my heart, which hurt when I touched them. Now that I am a parent, I realize that the same words can be better expressed to my children …… Never say: I said this, you have to listen! The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these. I know how sad you are, after all, I’m sad too~ Never say: If you don’t finish your meal, you’ll grow frustrated! But say: if you eat well, you will be as strong as your father ~ never say: you are doing it wrong! Give me, I’ll give you a ride! Instead, say: I have a little trick, let me show you how to hitch faster ~ Never say: You don’t look happy. The actual fact is that you’ll be able to get a good deal on your own. How long are you going to keep me waiting for you? Instead, say: Let’s race? Never say: Here, take it and don’t cry! Instead, say: I understand how you feel, but, you know, this should not be what I allow you to do ~ never say: you wash these dishes, I will give you candy to eat! Instead, say: you remember the day you helped me to clean the dishes? You simply did me a great favor ~ never say: you ask me, who do I ask? Instead, say: I don’t know this question either, why don’t I find the answer and share it with you? Don’t say: No more TV! Instead, say: Let’s go play a game together? Don’t say: Look what you’ve done! I know you didn’t mean it like that, but next time remember to be more careful~ Never say: Look at Xiao Ming, he always comes home on time, unlike you! Instead, say: always try to come home on time, it is very important ~ sometimes, adjust your mood to communicate with your children, a different way to express your thoughts, the effect will be better!