1, try to praise the child. Children have a certain amount of self-confidence before they are willing to learn. To make the child feel every day that he has made some progress in learning, even if it is to correct a shortcoming. 2. Care more about what your child is learning and how much progress he is actually making. Parents should ask their children more about what they have studied recently, how well they have mastered it, etc. 3, often set a few small goals for your child that are easy to achieve. This can make the child feel able to do, the child has self-confidence, which will help the child to achieve his or her potential. 4.Stimulate your child’s desire to learn. To seize every opportunity in life for your child to practice. 5.Help your child develop a sense of responsibility. Let your child learn to wash dishes, wash handkerchiefs, make his or her own bed, utensils, and do his or her share of responsibility. 6.Be an example in front of your child. 7.Try not to talk about teachers in front of your children, and especially not to belittle them in front of your children. 8.Set home study rules and enforce them from the beginning to the end to form good study habits and work and rest habits. 9, guide your child to be good at asking questions. To train the child to ask more questions why. 10.To make the child pay attention to school, try to avoid the child missing school. A good parent wants to create a good future for a child, pay attention to the following points: 1, the child as an equal member of the family, respect for the child’s personality, dignity let the child think independently, free choice. Let the child choose freely does not mean that parents do nothing, parents can guide, can help analyze, the ultimate choice in the hands of the child. If the child chooses wrongly, she will take responsibility herself, and once she realizes that she is wrong, she can quickly correct it. If you help her make the choice, even if it is right, she will not necessarily do well; if it is wrong, she will resent you, because the responsibility is yours. 2, listen carefully and patiently to the child’s views, to be friends with the child, the family can not engage in “one word” completely by the parents say. Especially when it comes to child-related matters, parents must discuss with their children, listen to their children’s views, the right opinion to accept, not the right opinion to make explanations. When parents make a decision on a matter at home, should also seek the views of the child, which is conducive to the healthy growth of children, children will feel that they are equal members of the family, in the future will actively think about the family, on the other hand, is also conducive to the completion of things this ability. 3, strive to understand the child, deep into the child’s inner world understand the child’s wishes, respect the child’s choice, support the child’s legitimate requirements. Also open yourself up to your child, let your child understand your parents’ thoughts, feel your parents’ likes and dislikes, and strive for your child’s trust and understanding. This will not only help parents to really become their children’s friends, but also help them to better guide their children’s growth. 4, to the child’s growth in the past into the method of laying out the facts and reasoning. Do not easily make an evaluation of the child’s behavior, issue instructions, but try to guide the child to think. To care more about the child’s thoughts and behavior, for the problem, should be through conversation, consultation, to obtain mutual communication and understanding, and finally seek a just and reasonable answer. 5. Being a friend to your child does not mean giving up your principles and accommodating your child’s mistakes. We emphasize giving children the freedom to develop their interests, but it is not a free hand. You should grasp a certain scale and put forward strict requirements. If your child is wrong, you should not give in, but point it out seriously and explain accordingly so as not to repeat it next time. If you are wrong, admit it to your child. You should make an example to your child with your own words and actions and style, and guide your child to form good character qualities. 6, take the initiative to communicate with your child’s heart. The purpose of communication with children is to improve mutual understanding of their own opinions and requirements to the child clearly so that children understand the meaning of parents, is communication. In fact, this is not enough, because that is only one-way, the purpose is only to let the child understand the parents, the child can do what the parents expect. Have these parents ever thought: you ask your children to listen and understand you, but have you ever understood your children’s thoughts? Communication requires parents to take the initiative to express their inner world to their children, and at the same time listen more to their children, listen to each other and understand each other. In this way, we can understand what is in our children’s mind, and then “prescribe the right medicine” to give appropriate guidance, so that our children can grow up healthily.