1, often kiss the baby’s mouth Harm: we can understand the parents love the baby’s mood, but the baby’s immune system and resistance are still to be perfect, such “close contact” is easy to adults on the body of the bacteria passed on to the baby (such as microorganisms in the mouth will be infected through such a pathway to the baby), leading to The baby is sick. Change method: the way of emotional communication can be a variety of ways, such as to give the baby a warm hug, or with a kiss on the forehead, small hands instead of kissing the mouth, and more to avoid letting other visitors to kiss the baby’s mouth and cheeks at will. 2, with the mouth to suck the nipple to try the temperature of the milk Harm: bottle feeding, some new parents because they can not grasp the temperature, directly suck a mouthful to determine, in fact, this will make the bacteria in the adult’s mouth attached to the nipple, and then into the baby’s body. For example, if a parent has tooth decay and the baby also has tooth decay, it is this bad habit that causes it. Change method: If you are not sure of the temperature of the milk, you can turn the bottle upside down and put a few drops of milk on the inside of your arm, if you feel neither hot nor cold, it means that the temperature is more appropriate and you can give it to your baby to drink. 3, small items, dangerous goods put everywhere Harm: some parents themselves like to throw things, always forget to return the items to their original position, such as scissors, fruit knife. There are also coins and other relatively small items are also littered, an inattention to the big pieces will hurt the baby, the small pieces will be swallowed by the baby accidentally. Change method: try to do the items back to the original place, coins, pills and other items that are easy for the baby to accidentally swallow and eat, must be placed in a place where the baby can not see, dangerous items must be away from the baby. Floor, bed and other frequent activities of the baby’s place should also clean up. 4, the home pulls the line harm: now a lot of electrical appliances at home, electrical appliances will be less wires, sockets, all kinds of items, the home fan wires, cables, washing machine wires scattered everywhere, on the baby will walk is a great threat, accidentally will trip and fall, but also once what do not understand the baby to touch the wires, sockets, it is very dangerous. Change method: socket installed in the baby can not touch the height or take protective measures, a variety of wiring can buy some wire box will be fixed around the wire, both space-saving, but also let the home looks fresh. You can also buy socket safety cover, will not be able to move and exposed socket cover, so that more protection of the baby’s safety. 5, the baby’s underwear is often new Harm: some parents do not understand: “I love the baby only from inside to outside to buy him a lot of new clothes, how also not right?” Baby’s skin is very delicate, and then qualified intimate apparel, also contains certain chemical ingredients, and softness is not enough, both may bruise the baby’s skin, the chemical ingredients contained will also jeopardize the baby’s health. Change method: intimate apparel selection when the material is very important, and do not often change the new, if there are friends and relatives children have worn can also be used, because it contains formaldehyde and other chemical ingredients, after a long period of time after washing has been basically not, and more soft and comfortable, although not new, but more favorable to the baby’s health. 6, the convenience of using only disposable diapers Harm: diapers thrown after use, convenient and trouble-free. But diapers are mainly composed of cellulose, polypropylene ester high-performance adsorbent, polyethylene, polypropylene, polyester, a small amount of elastic material and viscose, breathability is not so good, if the diapers are wet and did not replace them, it will hurt the skin, so that the baby’s little butt becomes red, and friction will damage the baby’s skin, and in severe cases, even rashes, which is also commonly known as diaper rash. Change method: you can give your baby diapers at night, but during the day it’s better to prepare some cloth diapers for your baby, although it’s a bit troublesome, but it’s good for your baby. If you use diapers, you should also pay attention to change at any time. 7, a large number of children to supplement the harm: the child will not eat when the child calcium, iron, zinc supplement …… children will eat and then began to serve a large fish and meat, in fact, to the child “more”, not necessarily good for the child. Such as excessive calcium supplementation, the child can not be absorbed, digested, but will cause calcium deposition, resulting in children at a young age, kidney stones, bile ducts or urinary stones, and the result of large fish and meat is to lead to obese children. It can be seen that the side effects of a large number of supplements will instead harm the child. Change the method: for infants, breast milk is a better choice, and for children who will eat complementary foods, nutritional balance, meat and vegetable mix is conducive to the growth of children. If you are really worried that your child lacks certain elements, you must be examined and supplemented under the guidance of a doctor. 8, the child will be thrown on the bed without supervision Harm: some parents will not walk the child on the bed and walked away, thinking that the wide bed is very safe, but in fact, but often happen to infants and young children fall accident. Change: If you really have to leave for a while, try to put your child in a crib or stroller with rails, and come back as soon as possible, and try not to let your child out of your sight. 9, life is not regular Harm: some parents used to be night owls, so that their children and their own as night owls, such as very late feeding, the middle of the night, but also make noise to interfere with the baby’s rest …… baby’s body growth hormone in the night between 10:00 ~ 2:00 a.m. to play the greater effect of late to sleep or sleep quality will affect the baby! Physical development, such as short stature. At the same time, sleeping late will also affect the structure and function of the baby’s brain, not conducive to the baby’s emotional and behavioral development. Change method: parents better to develop a regular routine, if there is no way to adjust, but also to help the baby to develop a regular routine, and give the baby a quiet sleep environment. 10, often with the baby shopping Harm: some mothers like shopping, so often with the baby shopping, but more people in public places, germs and other dangers exist in the chances of more, and these occasions also tend to have a lot of harmful gas emissions, such as automobile exhaust, etc., on the resistance of immature babies, it is a dangerous zone, it is very easy for babies to suffer from respiratory infections and other diseases. Change method: often take the baby out for a walk, accept the sunshine is good, but the choice of places should not be shopping malls and other places, but the fresh air of the park and other places. 11, diet unrestrained, no taboos Harm: Some parents think that children can eat is good, so the child to eat how much are not restrained, or long-term with children to eat junk food. Uncontrolled diet is easy to cause obese babies, and long-term eating outside food is not only easy to cause the baby gastrointestinal burden, nutrition is also difficult to ensure. In recent years the symptoms of high cholesterol and high blood pressure have appeared at a younger age, which is the result of dietary indulgence. Change method: suitable, the right amount is good for the baby, the baby’s diet must be rationalized, because this is their development faster and more important period, even if you can not do every day to the child to produce food, but also must be with reasonable. 12, home TV, stereo sound is very big Harm: some parents in order to create “atmosphere” and look for “feeling”, often home TV, stereo tuned to a very high decibel, excessive stimulation will hurt the child’s eardrums, affecting the development of children’s hearing. Change method: and children with the time, television, stereo and other sounds should not be too large, on the child’s hearing has an impact on the boundaries of 80 decibels, so the home should try to create a relatively “quiet” environment for the child. 13, long-term to the child sitting in a stroller, walker Harm: some parents like to be lazy, so always let the child sitting in a walker or stroller, but this will make the child lose a lot of opportunities to improve the ability to exercise, but also not conducive to the child’s overall development. The walker not only restricts the child’s freedom, but also is not favorable to the development of the child’s legs. Moreover, walkers are not 100% safe and are prone to accidents. Change the method: let your child have the opportunity to crawl and walk. Although this may cost you more time and energy, it will make your baby’s life path more complete. 14, ignoring home safety hazards Harm: Parents are always from the adult point of view, think everything is fine at home, in fact, did not close the bathroom door, the kitchen door, the balcony door, did not put the tablets, scattered items everywhere, on the eyes and hands of adults is not much impact, but for the ignorant children, these will threaten their safety. Change method: to do with the door, clean up the items at home, home furniture is not stable to prohibit children from climbing. 15, holding the child to sleep Harm: some parents love their children, or in winter for fear of freezing the child, sleeping tightly around the child, which will cause the child to whistle, serious and even lead to sudden infant death. Adults will also turn over and press the child when sleeping, bringing physical harm to the child, and this sleeping method will interfere with the parents and the child’s sleep at the same time. Change method: Especially in winter, a big reason for sudden infant death is poor sleep caused by the way, so parents can be in the big bed next to a crib, not only convenient to take care of the child, but also less likely to have accidents. 16, with the baby to watch adult dramas Harm: Some parents like to take their children to watch TV, because it can take care of the child can also be their own entertainment, two without delay. But many TV programs are not suitable for children to watch, easy to let the child to produce false cognition, and long-term watching TV more children’s vision development is very harmful. Change method: to the child to watch television programs must be suitable for the child’s developmental stage, the content of healthy, and small children to watch television time should also be strictly regulated. Better to play games instead of watching TV. 17, do not abide by traffic rules Harm: look at the left and right, no one, no car, just randomly breaking the traffic lights, which not only threaten their own safety and the safety of others, but also let the child does not pay attention to traffic rules, there is a fluke mentality. Children who are not aware of safety and self-protection are vulnerable to danger whether they are out and about or at home. Changes: Whether or not you take your child out, always follow the rules of the road. Usually try to tell your child the importance of obeying traffic rules and tell him that doing so is actually protecting himself. 18, too much love and care for the child Harm: you feel sorry for the child, so you do not let him do anything, but this is actually depriving the child of the opportunity to do it, so that he does not have the opportunity to learn, do not get the exercise, the child will be very difficult to learn to take care of their own skills, and at the same time the emergence of the idea of dependence, into a “lazy” child, the future is also very difficult to adapt to the collective life. It will be difficult for the child to adapt to the group life in the future. Change method: give the child some independent opportunities, within his capacity, to assign him some things, so that children understand the reasoning of pay to gain, but also let him learn the ability to have. The child hands is a more effective way to learn, too much love and care for the child is actually harming the child. 19, with the baby to play with the computer Harm: Some parents both want to play computer and have to take care of the baby, so “the best of both worlds” with the baby to play games, but the computer radiation on the child’s nervous system and brain development is very unfavorable, strong visual and auditory stimulation will hurt the baby, but also easy to cause cervical spine and other bone development problems. Change method: children contact with the computer too early is not a good thing, not only the ability to reach, there is no benefit, although many parents want to let their babies contact with the computer as early as possible, but also must be the right age and the right amount of good. 20, do not love sports Harm: many parents do not love sports themselves, naturally, will not take their children with sports, and even ignore the importance of sports on the child’s development, so that the child becomes a little chubby, or because of the lack of sports and lead to the development of certain skills lagging behind. Change method: more exercise is beneficial to themselves and children, so usually try to find time to take the child together to do some sports and games, both exercise the body, but also to develop parent-child relationship.