Abstract: Nowadays, a large part of them are only child families, especially the post-80s young couple families, basically a family of three. The child is the treasure in the heart of the hand, always cautious, for fear that the child out of a little problem, but education of children also depends on the method, the author shares the 10 taboos in education, you know how many of them? 1, overprotective Sometimes, because parents pay too much attention to the surface needs of children, ignoring the invisible psychological needs of children, even though the child has excellent innate conditions, but not the proper development. When the child wants to run, want to play, some parents will be afraid that the child will be injured and forbid him. In this way, the child will develop bad habits, become physically delayed, weak and sickly, and his or her mental development will be hindered, and his or her personality will become retiring and timid, lacking self-confidence and unable to face difficulties. Parents must understand that caring is a spiritual communication, not a behavioral intervention. Excessive intervention is not only offensive to the child, but also hinders the development of the child’s potential. 2. Excessive pampering Parents obey their children’s requests and do everything for them, so that they do not have to do anything, and they easily become self-centered, capricious, dependent, late, intolerant, and do not know how to take care of themselves. Even if the surface seems soft and gentle, but when the child grows up and needs to face difficult problems, there may be a sudden change in personality. 3, pull up the seedlings to help grow Some parents disregard the development of the child, forcing him to learn to stand early, learn to walk, learn to write …… cause a serious imbalance between the child’s body and mind, resulting in temper tantrums, anxiety, apathy, withdrawal and other problems, may also be a refusal to learn, and do not know how to live in harmony with others. 4, overly authoritarian often with an authoritative tone to regulate the child’s actions, restrict his freedom, deny his ideas, will make the child in a long-term panic, unable to express themselves, only know obedience, and make the child lose confidence, lose the courage to try new things. In addition, to vent their frustration, children will bully children younger than themselves. When the child grows up, he or she is more likely to hold a grudge against the parents and take out the pent-up resentment on them. 5, stern face Children can not feel the love of parents in the seriousness, put on a stern face, will only make the child to parents discouraged. Parents should avoid using harsh words to reprimand their children, even if the child is not doing well, should also give him gentle advice, so that he can easily accept. Many parents have high expectations of their children, but are stingy in praising their children. They often put on the face of an elder to scold their children, thinking that this is education, but in fact, they ignore the wonderful educational effect that praise brings. 6, ignore the child’s strengths think that the child has no strengths, even if there are, parents also take it for granted. Chinese people are more modest, so some parents are not used to praising their children in front of people, and sometimes criticize them without thinking. In fact, the parents’ evaluation of the child is the basis for the child’s self-image, if often mentioned his shortcomings, the child will doubt his own ability, not only affect his self-confidence, and even think he is useless, will not think of progress. 7, limit the child to talk Children like to ask questions, some parents will feel annoyed, and interrupt the child’s words, or ask the child to be quiet. While others ask their children questions, some parents often speak for their children. This will deprive the child of the opportunity to practice speaking, resulting in poor self-expression, and will gradually stop talking to their parents, seriously affecting the communication between parents and children. 8, often to the child nagging Some parents mistakenly believe that more than a few times to the child, the child should know how to do, even in the comfort of the child, is to point out the child’s faults, admonishing him how to do, and ignore the child’s difficulties. This practice of parents will make the child feel numb, become lifeless, no self-confidence. 9, the child’s temper tantrum parents emotional instability, temper tantrum, will make the child’s personality becomes distorted, behavior becomes extreme. The child may become rebellious, indistinguishable from right and wrong, lack of responsibility; or become autistic, insecure; or may also love to lose their temper. 10, underestimate the child’s ability Parents question the child’s potential, and always ask the child to follow their own wishes. This makes the child unable to learn from failures, and become accustomed to dependence, to be ordered around, and to lack thinking power. Some people are over-intelligent, but have weak will and low ambition; others are of mediocre intelligence, but are tenacious, ambitious and indefatigable. Any normal child always has such and such advantages or potential advantages. Therefore, as parents, they should analyze their children’s characteristics objectively and soberly, be good at finding their children’s strengths, and let their children feel the joy of success.