In the short term after surgery for prostate enlargement, the relationship between husband and wife may be affected, and when fully recovered, it will not affect the relationship between husband and wife. For severe prostate hyperplasia, surgical treatment may be needed, such as transurethral resection of the prostate. In the early period after the surgery, due to the trauma of the surgery, it is not recommended to have sex, which may affect the relationship between husband and wife. After surgery for prostate enlargement, men can usually have a normal sex life after it has returned to normal, and it usually does not have a long-term effect on the couple’s relationship. In order to avoid abnormalities after surgery, we should strengthen the postoperative care, keep the lower body clean, more bed rest, avoid strenuous exercise, do not have sex too early. In the postoperative discomfort symptoms, it is recommended to consult a doctor to clarify the cause and standardize the treatment and therapy to avoid affecting the postoperative recovery.