All along, many parents have questions about the following issues: 1, how long will rehabilitation be effective? 2.The child will cry and shiver all over when doing rehabilitation, how to solve it? 3, why the same two children muscle tone belongs to the moderate high, abnormal posture are all the same, but after the rehabilitation of the therapeutic effect is very different? A lot of problems if the medicine belongs to the explanation, it is difficult, on the one hand, the information is incomplete, it is difficult to find out absolutely convincing and reasonable information, on the one hand, the rehabilitation medicine has been in the development of difficult, from the field of children’s rehabilitation, many doctors in China between the recommendations itself there are many differences, parents often face different experts of the opposite diagnosis and statement seems to be at a loss. Secondly, the core of the problem may not lie in rehabilitation medicine, but in the level of family care and child psychology. The butterfly effect of a loud shout may cause difficulties in the later stages of rehabilitation, which is seldom paid attention to by many people nowadays. Therefore, it is necessary to analyze the situation from some angles, avoiding jargon as much as possible, so that parents can better understand why the above problems occur, all from the parents’ point of view, everything from an understandable point of view, and I hope it can be beneficial to everyone. What is rehabilitation? Baidu can be learned: refers to the integrated and coordinated application of medical, social, educational and vocational measures to alleviate the physical, mental and social dysfunction of the disabled, so that they can be reintegrated into society with overall recovery. Rehabilitation is not only purely medical rehabilitation, but also should include psychological, social, economic, vocational, educational and other aspects of rehabilitation. See? If you think of rehabilitation only as a medical act, then you probably will not get the results you want, because there are too many factors involved in the success of rehabilitation, from the point of view of the rehabilitation of high-risk children, in addition to the medical reasons for rehabilitation, other factors that may affect the life habits, scientific care, social behavior backwardness, sensory integration disorders, the stages of psychological development of the child, the rehabilitation of the environmental factors, and so on. I still take Little Hao as an example to illustrate, we don’t need to talk about the specific muscle tone here first. What are the results of the MRI? What are the abnormal postures, etc. These are all medical diagnoses, and each baby has different problems, so let’s ignore them for now and just talk about comparisons in rehabilitation. From the beginning of the formalized training in the hospital to the later stages of home rehabilitation, know Xiaohao, and Xiaohao together with the rehabilitation may know, the entire rehabilitation center Xiaohao crying is certainly the least, she is almost not very noisy, with the degree of cooperation is also better, coupled with our own very attentive, every day the amount of follow-up especially more, so the results have been out of the very fast. How did Xiao Hao do it? Here first do not really go to compare their own children and small good condition who is heavy and who is light problem, I first ask the parents a few questions: 1, you often do not go to hold the baby? 2, in the home baby wear as much as you? Is the old man or parents are always afraid of children cold wear more than their own? (After 3 months) 3, you touch the baby every day the total time of 2 hours? 4, your baby sleeps or flat when raising, whether or not never avoid the baby, TV, cell phone, talking and other sounds are never afraid of noisy baby? 5, you often let the baby play by himself, especially lying down to play? 6, from the baby’s first eyes, you insist on touching the baby’s whole body every day? 7.Do you insist on giving your baby water massage every day? 8, you have every day to take the baby out, contact with different environments and different people? 9, you have every day to tell stories to the baby, see pictures, listen to music, learn passwords and other cognitive training for more than one hour in total? 10.Do parents have a uniform way of raising their babies? 11, the baby is sick, you have a fever on the medicine, a cold and cough must take medicine, and even go to the hospital hanging water? 12, you have not insisted on learning a variety of parenting, nursing, rehabilitation and other knowledge, at least complete read more than 10 books of monographs? 13, you have exhausted all kinds of ways to maintain indoor temperature and humidity to achieve the appropriate state, so that the child is always wearing less, can be better free to move some? 14.Have you insisted on giving your baby milk, no matter what age, to ensure that more than 500ML of milk per day? All as a multiple choice question, you see how many you can answer “yes”, if more than half of them can not answer “yes”, then your baby wants to recover smoothly, no crying is almost not very realistic. At least we did all of the above. Do you understand something at this point? By the way, rehabilitation is definitely not simply a matter of maneuvers, but more importantly, habits, good habits and scientific care is an important foundation for successful rehabilitation, why do babies cry? They are born after a conscious existence of an individual, perhaps the beginning of consciousness is very low, all activities are out of animal instincts only, but as life, they have all the feelings of human beings, the body’s skin is the largest organ of feeling, for the outside world of the environment changes, parents talk, water, water, milk flavor, etc., babies are born to remember and quickly adapt to this point, which is This is based on many scientific experiments. Since the baby has these feelings, you are: because the baby is weak, over-indulgence and ignorance every day holding, so that this life feel incredibly disgusted and helpless, the whole body is bound by you, can not move, the mouth has to say the poor baby how the movement backward it; because of the baby’s weakness, you do not dare to speak loudly, do not dare to pick up the cell phone, the whole house is as quiet as a haunted house, and occasionally can be heard vaguely do not know who is there! Sobbing and whispering is the baby’s feelings, they can not enjoy the normal human environment, you always doubt that the baby is not to hear the sound; because the baby is small and weak, a sick you give medication, a cough you hold to the hospital for injections, the baby helplessly suffered a lot of torment and pain, and even cried aloud so that you don’t over-treat yourself, otherwise you can’t have a good resistance, can’t form an effective Immunity, you always look at the baby sadly, hands holding the baby, looking at the needle inserted into the baby’s tiny veins, tears, said look at my baby how poor; because the baby is weak, always like to cover a lot of clothes, as the network popular paragraph “autumn wear fall pants is not the main reason for the day is not cold, but your mother thinks you are cold” is the same! The baby is obviously behind the hot flashes, the body is left layer after layer of cotton clothes wrapped, like a bear like a general turn over can not do, you are next to the sad that you see the baby will not even turn over, I’m hard to die; because of the baby’s weakness, the old man was distressed, gave up the daily milk, always chicken soup and fish soup back and forth stewed, less than 6 months to start all kinds of ways to think of ways to do the cooking, babies intestines and stomachs have not yet reached the ability to accept those flavors and tastes, and then forced to accept those flavors and tastes. The ability to begin to be forced to accept those tastes heavy food, the result is not diarrhea or constipation, either because of digestive problems and lead to a decline in immunity, the baby’s suffering when you are next to the heartache that children, eat some more, mom will give you more to do good food; because the baby is small and weak, you instead of her to do all the things, the child wants toys, just look at it, was handed over by you, wanting to Through their own efforts to reach something, the purpose is to be able to the joy of the process, and you do all the things at once, but also self-righteousness that want to give you, mom most painful to you; because the baby is weak, out of the door do not dare to go to a crowded place, either for fear of stealing the child is not safe or for fear of infectious diseases, as if all the places of the world are dangerous, the baby is tired of staying at home, would have liked to go out to see more people to do more things, more experience of the nature brought about by the baby, and the baby is not afraid to go out, but to go out to see the baby. The baby is tired of staying at home, wanted to go out to see more people and do more things, more to experience the fun of nature, but you said let’s go, outside is too dirty, get some air and go home. Poor babies, they want to healthy development, the results are parents in the usual life and care stifled, constant substitution, constant coddling so that the babies are sick of, they ultimately hate others to touch them, because long-term cover clothing so that they are physically over-sensitive; they hate other people make a lot of noise, or even other babies crying, because the home is always quiet so that they are accustomed to quiet; they hate to drink milk, because it is too early, tastes and smells, and then go home. Drinking milk, because too early, too heavy taste of complementary food so that they lose the milk favorite, resistance to decline; they hate to let them move and fetch, even a roll over and sit up someone can directly help is the best, because parents are too much like to help everything is finished and do not allow them to have a chance to explore and learn. After all this talk, there is almost no talk about rehabilitation, but rehabilitation is everywhere. Rehabilitation is a process, a process of continuous development and adaptation, not a result of coercion and pressure. Trying to put the result directly on the child is like tying you up and making you immobile, and then forcing you to eat a meal you don’t want to eat, forcing you to do leg presses, and forcing you to memorize a lot of words you don’t know, would you want to do that? be willing to do that? That’s where your baby is right now. Solution: Knowing the non-medical reasons why your baby is unwilling to cooperate with you and the rehab instructor, the solution is there. Give you a few suggestions, go back to do, you will find that the baby with the degree will be higher and higher, the effect of rehabilitation will naturally be more and more better. 1, put down your hand, let the baby free some Don’t always hold, you don’t use those understandings to block me, what a put down to cry, my baby and your home is not the same, my baby love mother. And so on all the reasons do not stand, because your hold, let the child lazy, because your hold, prevent her desire and need for movement, because your hold, let her psychological maturity development speed is getting lower and lower, she is ultimately just a child who can not grow up, put down, you are also easy, the baby is easy; put down, you have more opportunities to observe the baby from a positive perspective, the baby also has more angles to see the world. Do not put down, can only show that your heart has not been put down. 2, scientific care, do not let the drugs harm the child Abuse of antibiotics; random use of medicines, cough medicine before the age of 3, cold medicine has been used for a number of boxes; as long as a fever, no matter how many degrees must be used antipyretic drugs. You have to know that the destruction of the child’s health is not those viruses and bacteria, but you, as a child, born after the body is not much immunity, the body’s immune system wants to work there must be a learning process, the vaccine is the best one, and usually colds, coughs are also a rare learning process, from the beginning to learn the knowledge of scientific care, by adjusting the diet, adjusting sleep, Water regulation, indoor environment regulation, etc. to let the baby learn to resist those viruses and bacteria, the ultimate benefit is the child, to know that those drugs have side effects, look at the instructions to know, some of the nerves are damaged, some of the liver and kidney function is damaged, some of the blood is damaged, and some of the intestines and stomach is damaged, for the children who are recovering, but also additional stimulation of these, you think! Do you think they will get well fast? A cold and fever can interrupt a child’s recovery for several days, do you think such a baby can have a quick recovery? Don’t make excuses, don’t say the baby is weak, look for your own reasons, have you studied? Did you study? Did you stick to your principles? They do not learn, ignorant in that sad sad crying, you are not a qualified parents. 3, more touch the child, the child needs this skin-to-skin care Stroking can reduce the child’s sensitivity to the outside world, through stroking, not only can enhance the feelings between parents and children, so that the baby to you to form a better attachment, but also to improve the development of the nervous system, promote compensatory function. Touch can also improve the body’s microcirculation, so that the blood flow more smoothly, enhance resistance, reduce the occurrence of disease, physical health in order to mental health. Long-term touch can also have a better future attention, cognitive power, learning ability to improve, is a rare good method does not need to spend money. Use it more, put the child clothes to wear less, more electricity is nothing, give the child a healthy future, this is what you need, this is not money can buy. 4, pay attention to the child’s mental health, respect for children, but also a child’s behavioral freedom Do not always interfere with the child’s behavior, human beings from the day of evolution is destined to have a stronger learning ability than other animals. Primitive man started from every thing, constantly trying, exploring learning, adapting to the whole environment before we have today, and you are constantly in a variety of environments in a hand, constantly disturbing the child’s exploration process and the process of the game, the old man’s constant nagging, the parents of the constant professor, so that the baby meals to mouth, clothes to reach out to the hand, and even to play with a toy according to the eyes to the hand, this is not love, nor is it spoiling, this is the nakedness! Spoiling, this is a naked degradation, psychological degradation, physiological degradation, you are in love with children? This is simply harming children. You don’t want them to become adults, you want them to become primitives! Please give your children a freedom, whether they are high-risk or normal children, they need a process of self-exploration, the emergence of active consciousness is a good start, you have to learn the principle: keep your mouth shut and stop your legs. Don’t always be the first to help them, they fall, that is in learning balance, without the beginning of the fall to, there will be no later smooth walking; they play with toys and cry, that is in self-compassion, without the emergence of frustration, they don’t know what is persistence and success. When you can do these, the baby will slowly develop a good sense of emotion, the gradual formation of autonomous personality and better mental health, which is very helpful for recovery. 5, more learning, so that they become giants of knowledge, rather than ignorant idiots The baby’s recovery process is exceptionally difficult, I have met too many parents because they do not go to study, and took too many detours, and some are even ignorant and ridiculous, obviously with the Internet, obviously have so many books, but unfortunately they do not go to access, do not go to see the baby’s so important recovery time is completely contempt, so that in the end the painfully lost! The best time to recover, and then realized that it is too late to regret, the most painful thing in the world than this, if you give them another chance, ask willing to learn? They will say, “I am willing to do so. If a deadline is added to this answer, they will surely say in their heart: 10,000 years. (Sorry, mediate haha). A lot of questions are in the books, who to look at? Of course, look at the experts, Bao Xiulan, Shao Xiao Meira, Li Shuchun, in short, many top experts have written a lot of good treatment books, which have a large number of answers, why not go to see? Don’t say you can’t read, that’s because you simply don’t take reading as a very important thing, reading a hundred times the meaning of the old saying is absolutely right, you haven’t read enough to understand the door, you think it’s a novel ah. Slowly turn over, as a tool book constantly check, against the baby checklist a little bit of key, you will not understand? Don’t make excuses, more learning is the most cost-effective thing both for you and for your child. Looking back, wrote so much actually rarely write rehabilitation, but you understand what I want to express the meaning? The child’s recovery is a very complex thing, life education, life habits, life feeding, life care are all contributing to the effective recovery results of the prerequisites, without these as a foundation, like a skyscraper, the first floor only a few steel support, you can build a few floors? Don’t think the above and rehabilitation has nothing to do with, if after reading you don’t have any idea, forget it, let the child cry, to say the bad words: anyway, not my child; to say a word of conscience: a little bit to change some of your habit of bringing up children so difficult? To be honest: for the sake of the child you insist on doing to see it.