“Doctor, I suddenly realized that I am not ejaculating when I am “popping”, is there any help for this?” Of course there is! With a series of specialized treatments, it is possible to return to normal. But then again, it’s true that it’s not easy for gay men who have it. “It’s like a soldier carrying a gun into battle and suddenly realizing the bullet won’t come out the moment he’s about to fire.” In addition, because this disease is mainly seen in young adults, improper handling will also affect the relationship between husband and wife, and even lead to the breakup of the family, bringing mental anguish to the patient. Then the question comes, why some boys at a young age inexplicably suffered from ejaculation? First, functional ejaculation Functional ejaculation disorder accounts for about 90% of ejaculation disorder, divided into primary and secondary two kinds. The former refers to never having ejaculated while awake, while the latter refers to having ejaculated and then not being able to ejaculate due to various reasons. The reasons for secondary ejaculation are as follows: 1, mental factors: this is one of the most common reasons, such as dissatisfaction with the spouse, marriage debt, ideological pressure, husband and wife relationship is not coordinated, decreased libido, poor sexual environment, resulting in a restrained attitude towards sex, long-term inhibition of the formation of non-ejaculatory reflexes. 2, sexual ignorance: couples completely lack of sexual knowledge, and even have a fear of sex, such as the woman’s fear of pregnancy or pain fear and limit the man’s large-scale, rapid pumping, resulting in the man can not reach the threshold of ejaculation. 3, sexual fatigue: sexual intercourse too often easily cause spinal cord ejaculation center dysfunction, triggering ejaculation. In addition, long-term masturbation due to the ejaculatory center accustomed to the strong stimulation of masturbation, sexual intercourse, on the contrary, can not reach the threshold of ejaculation; on the other hand, masturbators usually have a sense of guilt and shame, but also on the ejaculation of the inhibiting effect. Secondly, the organic non-ejaculation Organic non-ejaculation accounts for about 10% of the non-ejaculation, the main reasons are: 1, cerebral lateral lobe lesions. Although the libido is normal, the sexual intercourse can not ejaculate. 2, spinal cord injury. The twelfth thoracic vertebra to the first lumbar vertebra segment and the sacral cord segment injury. 3, conduction nerve disorder. Thoracolumbar sympathectomy and retroperitoneal lymph node dissection can damage the nerves and cause non-ejaculation. 4.Local lesions bladder neck relaxation, seminal hypertrophy, penile trauma, hardness, scarring, fibrosis, severe hypospadias. 5, pituitary hypoplasia, hyperthyroidism, acromegaly, mucous edema can also cause ejaculatory disorders. 6, drug effects long-term application of certain anti-hypertensive drugs, or take too much sedative and tranquilizer drugs, long-term alcoholism, these will induce ejaculation. For those who do not ejaculate, although the process of treatment is very torturous, but it is not incurable. What is more important is the understanding and support of the partner. Only in this way can the body be restored to a healthy state as soon as possible. References: [1] Department of Urology, Tongji Hospital, Tongji Medical College, Huazhong University of Science and Technology, Wuhan 430030, China.