The little angels descended into the world and gazed with curiosity at everything before them. “Mama, what is that?” “Mommy, why are there stars in the sky?” “Mommy, can I eat the stars?” “Why can’t I eat the stars?” “Mommy, why are the stars yellow?” “Mommy, why does Daddy say I can eat stars?” …… Faced with ta’s “100,000 reasons”, many parents from the beginning of the new to later bored. However, whether or not you really can’t answer, in the face of these curious babies, these 4 sentences, please do not say! The first sentence “Can’t you see I’m busy?” This sentence will make the child sad, because it means – I am now the first thing, your question is not important. Such a response will make your child feel that his or her inquisitiveness is not valued, and his or her enthusiasm to find out the truth when he or she encounters a problem in the future will be greatly diminished! So, even if you are really busy, communicate calmly with your child: “Mommy is doing something, let’s find the answer together with you when Mommy is done”, instead of rudely shutting your child up. The second sentence: “Why do you have so many questions?” When you hear this sentence, your child’s first reaction will be: “So many questions are unpleasant”, “It’s not right to have many questions”, “I shouldn’t ask these questions”, “I should not ask these questions”, “I shouldn’t ask these questions”, and the child’s curiosity will be dampened and he or she will not care about new things in the world. Going forward, when you encounter problems in life and as an adult, you will also refrain from asking others for help and become more and more introverted. The third sentence “you are so small, you do not understand” with “young, do not understand” as an excuse to avoid answering, many parents are doing so! Bae is here to say, no! Your attitude towards your child is problematic! Please respect your child, do what you can to help him, solve his problems, take him to understand the world, do not feel indifferent because he is young! The fourth sentence “You don’t even know such a simple question?” This phrase is very damaging! The child will become inferior and unable to hold his head up because he feels he doesn’t know even the simplest questions and is ridiculed and reprimanded by adults for it. If you don’t want to hurt your child, please don’t attack him with such words. Have you ever said any of these 4 things to your child? If you have said them, please correct them now!