Abstract: It takes a process for children to learn to take care of themselves, and parents need to give their children space and time to grow up. Self-care can start with the simplest of little things. Children are the heart and soul of their parents, but one day parents will leave their children. Therefore, parents should train their children from an early age to develop habits and self-care skills. Only when they learn to take care of themselves can children face the problems they encounter in life and living independently. If you spoil your child, you will only harm him or her, not love him or her. The best time to train your child’s independence is at the age of 3. Children can start learning to dress and undress at the age of 3. Parents should give their children space and time to grow up. It takes a process for children to learn how to take care of themselves, and parents can start by teaching their children the simplest little things around them. The first thing you can do is to learn from a simple open shirt, the child may not know how to button it, after putting on the clothes parents can teach the child to button it. The same goes for undressing, let your child unbutton slowly, slowly take your hands off, and the clothes will come out naturally. The child dresses and undresses just learn not to talk about speed, practice makes perfect, the child learns naturally faster Second, parents give opportunity in action, boldly let go. Children from 3 to 4 years old can start learning to brush their teeth. Once children start to be exposed to complementary foods, they will leave food residues in their teeth, which will also easily induce oral diseases and cause damage to teeth. Parents should teach their children to rinse their mouths after meals, and when the child reaches 3 to 4 years old, the parents should prepare a soft-bristled toothbrush for the child and teach the child to brush his or her teeth. At first, parents can not put toothpaste, the child may need to practice a few more times to do, the child can practice a few times to brush their own teeth under the care of adults. Third, the method of inspiration demonstration, guidance on the step-by-step 4 to 5-year-old children begin to learn to comb their own hair. It’s a woman’s nature to love beauty, and it’s no exception for little girls. They are young but they know that long hair is very beautiful for little girls. The mother can let her child practice a little more in the mirror, or borrow her own long hair for her child to practice. The first thing you need to do is to learn to tie a ponytail, and when the child grows up, the combing technique will naturally improve. Parents must have patience when teaching their children to take care of themselves, slowly and step by step, don’t want to teach them all at once, that is impossible. Fourth, positive encouragement to avoid discouraging children to try to independent enthusiasm 5 to 6-year-old children can learn to wash clothes. This is the time when children have entered the school age stage. At this time, parents can teach their children to learn to wash their own socks, small underwear and other simple and easy to wash things. Outside clothes are thicker, children can not wash clean, but also can learn to wash, more encouragement and affirmation of the child, they are willing to do is a good child. If a time not clean, parents should tell their children exactly how to wash, how hard, how much laundry detergent to put, and so on. As long as the method is taught, the child will get better with a few more practices.