This is a real tragedy that happened, if you have ever tutored your child to do homework like this, you should pay attention! A little girl in the second grade was always distracted from her homework, and every time her homework was wrong, her mother was so annoyed that she even suspected her child was doing it on purpose. This day because the teacher called the mother said the child’s homework is almost half wrong, the child a home from school, was punished by the mother to do homework on her knees in the street. The little girl looked up timidly at the crowd coming and going, and then wrote with her little hand on the workbook. Perhaps think the child is really too inattentive, sitting on the side of the mother suddenly a slap on the pen held by the child, shouting: “this word with you no less than ten times, always distracted, erase erase erase ……”, the child frowned at his mother, did not The child looked at his mother with a frown and did not say a word, silently picked up the eraser to erase the word written on half a page and rewrite it. I did not expect to just write half a page, the mother picked up the child’s workbook to tear off, told the child to rewrite, looking at the writing of the entire afternoon homework is gone, the child suddenly broke down and cried, attracting many people sympathetic gaze. “Do not write well tonight do not eat!” The mother coldly dropped a sentence to go back to the house to cook. The child wiped his tears while re-taking a new workbook to continue to write, the family in the house at dinner, only the little girl can not eat, I do not know how long to write, the little girl’s 8-month-old brother ate dinner crawled out, the little girl coldly glanced, the brother crawled farther and farther, has crawled to the road by a speeding private car crushed under the wheels … … …the little girl was always doing her homework. The face of the chest crying mother asked why not to hold the brother back, the little girl just coldly said: “You let me do my homework, or you scolded again not serious.” Later, because the mother could not reproduce was divorced, the little girl was also often beaten by a resentful mother. The author suggests that parents tutor their children to do their homework, be sure to remain patient, do not take extreme measures, otherwise it is easy to make the child resentful, endangering the child’s psychological growth. The face of always writing homework is not serious child, how should the mother do? 1, refuse to scold and blame If your child is always writing homework is not serious, the mother remember not to get angry, do not blame and scold the child, and do not take extreme behavior such as making the child kneel on the street. Although children are young, but their self-esteem is very strong, the mother must remain patient. The most wrong way to do homework with a child is to do it while the mother points out the mistakes, this method will make the child lose confidence or become bored with writing homework, and even make the child afraid to write. The correct way is to let the child do it all, and then the mother check it all at once, not only to ensure that the child completes it in time, but also to avoid the child’s dependence. 3, give appropriate tolerance to the child’s inattentiveness Generally speaking, the focus of 7 to 10 year olds can only last about 20 minutes, 10 to 12 year olds can last about 25 minutes, and the focus of children before the age of 7 is even less. Therefore, if your child is not serious or focused in doing homework, your mother can give appropriate tolerance, because your child’s concentration will improve with age. 4, let go of the child responsible for their own, let the child complete their own homework The teacher assigns homework, in fact, let the child review the knowledge learned, early childhood education experts suggest that parents can let go of the child to complete their own homework, whether there are mistakes or the child failed to complete the homework, parents can let the child responsible for the results. It is a good idea to let go of your own decision, the child can take it more seriously. 5, more encouragement, so that the child to build confidence When the child has progress in doing homework, the mother should promptly praise the child, so that the child has confidence in doing homework, but also from doing homework to find the joy of success, the child will be more and more serious about it.