A fleshy lump in the anal opening of a woman can be caused by inflammatory external hemorrhoids or thrombosed external hemorrhoids. At this time, you can try to treat it with conservative methods. A sitz bath with warm water or potassium permanganate can be used to improve the blood circulation around the anus and provide pain relief. If the pain is severe and unbearable, you can also incorporate diclofenac sodium suppositories into the anus for pain relief. In addition, you can apply a local hemorrhoid ointment to the meat bumps, you can choose anal Thai ointment or Ma Yinglong hemorrhoid cream to play the role of heat detoxification, reduce swelling and pain. At the same time, try to eat a light diet, avoiding overly spicy and stimulating foods and fried foods. If your stool is too dry, you can take oral laxative medications for laxative treatment, such as Ma Ren Wan, Huai Jiao Wan or Lactulose Oral Liquid.