After a child wets the bed, many mothers will blame their babies. But blaming the baby is not only won’t make the baby not wet the bed from now on, it will also increase the baby’s psychological burden. What moms shouldn’t do after bedwetting 1. scold When babies wet the bed, never scold them. In addition to adding a psychological burden to your baby, scolding will do nothing to help reduce bedwetting. You should know that bedwetting is inevitable for every child. It is an inevitable part of growing up and will not be omitted because of your scolding. 2. Premature urination training Some mothers deliberately begin to train their babies to urinate when they are only a few months old in order to form good urination habits. However, babies this young are still immature in terms of cognition and language comprehension, and cannot withstand complicated urination training, so deliberate efforts can lead to bedwetting due to urination disorders. 3. Let your baby sit on the potty for a long time Some careless mothers wake up their babies at night and let them sit on the potty while playing and peeing. In fact, sometimes babies just sit on the potty to play and don’t pee with their hearts, so it’s not easy for them to associate urination with sitting on the potty and form a conditioned reflex. 4, deliberately get up at night Some mothers worry about their babies wetting the bed, so they will wake them up repeatedly at night to make them urinate. However, this often makes it difficult for the baby’s bladder to get fully expanded and produce an obvious desire to urinate. How annoying it is for your baby to be told to pee when he doesn’t want to! And no matter how much your baby cries and struggles, he must finish peeing before he can leave the potty, which in turn will make him nervous and fearful about peeing. What should I do if my child wets the bed? 1.Be sure to let your child go to the toilet before going to bed, and try not to eat fruit or drink too much water an hour before bedtime. 2.Wake your child up every once in a while (according to your own child’s cycle of defecation) to go to the toilet. Be sure to wake him up so that he is awake and aware that he is in the right place to go to the toilet and not confused in bed. 3. Ask parents to set up a schedule for the child to keep track of each day (a calendar can be used). When bedwetting occurs, try to find the factors that can cause bedwetting and record them on the schedule, such as not sleeping on time, being too excited before bedtime, being too excited during the day, too much fluid intake in the evening, etc. When the child does not wet the bed, 1 star is drawn on the schedule and verbal praise or material reward is given. 4, bladder function exercise: urge the child to drink more water during the day, try to extend the time between urination, to promote the increase in urine volume, so that the bladder capacity gradually increased, encourage the child to interrupt urination in the middle of urination, count 1 to 10, and then urinate out, in order to improve the control ability of the bladder sphincter. 5, families with conditions, as far as possible before bedtime to give the baby a bath, which can reduce the production of bedwetting. If this is not possible, a hot water foot bath can also play a corresponding effect. 6.Baby’s bedding should be clean and warm, and be changed in time after wetting, as wet bedding will make the baby more prone to bedwetting. Note: When a mother gets her baby up to pee at night, she must wake him up thoroughly and let him urinate in a clear-headed state. Some mothers are afraid of affecting their babies’ sleep or getting cold, so they often let their babies urinate lying down in a haze, which can fail to help them establish a normal urination reflex. Over time, babies can urinate during sleep, such as when their external genitalia are touched or when they dream, increasing the number of bedwetting instead.