“The same applies to children. In the early education of children, many parents find that when the baby gradually has a personality and temperament, so that adults feel more and more difficult to manage, in addition to praise and encouragement, moderate punishment indispensable. The baby has no rules to show a: quarrel with peers, snatch toys Interesting “punishment” way: 1, advise. First put down the work at hand, and go to the child, so that the child knows you are paying attention and attention; then ask the child the reason for the argument, quarrel, and patiently listen to the child’s ideas; instill the child hit, snatching is not the correct behavior and concept, and ask the child to learn to say “please, thank you, sorry”. 2. Confiscate beloved things. Confiscate the child’s throwing objects as punishment. Tips: Put down the task at hand and go to the child to let him/her know that mom is paying attention. Tell the child to put away the littered items and stop making noise or he/she will be punished. Do not use a loud voice to silence or threaten the child; do not pull the child away directly and then loudly reprimand the child for not being; avoid hurting the child’s self-esteem between words. The baby has no rules to show two: fighting, throwing things, drawing, not collecting toys Interesting “punishment” methods: 1, beat the heart. Use newspaper to make a paper stick, the appearance can be wrapped with a layer of paper; give it a name, such as vigilance stick, Chen family stick; placed in a fixed place as a warning. 2.Help with housework. Prepare a rag, broom, basin and other cleaning utensils, so that children learn to clean up and develop the habit of neatness. Warm tips: make it when you are in a good mood, you can discuss with your child the reason for making the vigilance stick; when punishing your child, let him say what he is wrong first; remind the reason for the punishment; pay attention to safety issues, hit the parts of the hand and buttocks mainly, other parts should be avoided. Parents should always pay attention to their children’s safety; younger children can be led by their parents to do household chores together; train children to develop the habit of returning things to their original places; ask children what they have learned when helping with household chores. The baby has no rules to show three: noisy endless interesting “punishment” way: 1, penalty sitting. In the punishment area on a soft mat or a chair, can take a name; prepare an alarm clock or clock, timing punishment time. 2, row of beans. Prepare a box, plate, which has red, green and other colored beads, a few plastic jars; let the child on the punishment table, the various colors of the beads, placed in the correct position. Warm tips: the place of punishment is not facing the door, not in too obvious place; limit the time of punishment, or let the child talk about how long the punishment; after the punishment, let the child say the reason why they were punished today. If the child itself is very rebellious, depending on the situation for the child to modify to deal with, can first punish standing, sitting and then do punishment; this purpose in training the child to develop the habit of returning things to their original place; can train hand-eye coordination, discriminatory ability; after completion, let the child know the reason for being punished. Baby no rules performance four: like scolding, scratching, kicking, biting and other small movements interesting “punishment” way: painting. According to the family situation, a small table in a fixed place (this punishment table preferably not the usual use to the desk, dining table, guest table, etc., so as to avoid the future use of these tables, the child will be afraid, fear of psychology); prepare a drawing book and different colors of the brush, let the child draw, write out the idea in mind. Warm tips: when the child has an injury, first deal with the injured part before punishment; let the child will happen when and do the wrong thing to draw down; adults first control their emotions, you can learn from the child’s drawings, the child’s mental thoughts of making mistakes; this is art therapy method, less will hurt the child’s self-esteem. The baby has no rules to show five: deliberately jump from a high place down, running and jumping in the car Interesting “punishment” way: penalty station. In the home to plan a punishment area, can take a name, the location to the wall, not the main door; floor pavement cushion; prepare a clock or alarm clock, timing the child punishment time. Warm tips: the place of punishment should not be too obvious or facing the door, so as not to hurt the child’s self-esteem; speak with the child should not take too long to punish, otherwise it will cause the child more naughty counterproductive; depending on the height of the child to determine the height of the mat; after punishment, ask the child was punished for reasons, so that the child himself know the reasons for doing wrong. The baby has no rules to show six: violent tendencies, lying, and take the sheep by the hand Interesting “punishment” way: reading books, writing. Choose a fixed punishment area with a soft mat or a small table; put pencils, drawing paper, colored pens, story books, colored paper inside the punishment area; let the child write or read a book first, to resolve the child’s angry emotions. Warm tips: When the work can not be immediately put down, you can first call the child to the punishment area to reflect; do not rage against the child is not, and the child first isolated, to ease each other’s emotions; wait for the emotions to calm down, ask the child’s motives for making mistakes. The baby has no rules seven: do not like to brush their teeth, picky eaters, throw things interesting “punishment” way: prohibit certain rights, requirements. Temporarily prohibit your child from touching things he or she loves to eat or play with as punishment. Tips: Do not speak loudly to your child in a threatening or angry manner; let your child know the reason for banning these rights and reinstate them later when he or she does well. What to pay attention to when making rules for children 1. When making rules for children, the signal should be clear. For example, if a yellow light comes on in the street, that means you can stop or not. Has anyone ever taken the initiative to stop? When setting up rules, you need to clearly tell your child the consequences of doing so. 2, to the matter of fact, do not easily label the child. If we adults say something like, “You’ve been giving me trouble since you were born,” it will cause children to put themselves together with bad kids and lose confidence. 3, punishment must be timely. Children’s long-term memory is relatively poor. If you are slow to eat in the morning, you will probably forget about it by the evening. The mother actually does not need to say it again, the punishment to the child should be practical. 4. Establishing rules for your child must be simple and easy to understand, so that your child can easily comply. Children’s comprehension is not that profound, and their self-control is not strong, so setting up very complicated and difficult rules will not make him comply, but will make him confused; reason clearly, rather than simply ordering children roughly, and do not put on a powerful face – “You listen to me! I’m in charge!” 5, set the rules, regardless of the time and place occasions, to comply. The rules for children can not be today this way, tomorrow that way, at home a set, outside a set. This will only make the child confused and confused.