Individualized treatment is the key, no matter what kind of problem, to find the right way to treat is the most important thing in the patient’s mind, then give you a few strokes: 1, psychological counseling First of all, we believe that psychological counseling of premature ejaculation patients is a particularly important part. Because we see patients with premature ejaculation have some character traits, they are often introverted, sensitive, and most damaging is pessimistic character. Many male friends may just start to live a sex life when the performance are not very good, because of the lack of experience, but also not accustomed to, most of them can be after a period of time to adapt to, to achieve normal. And there is a part of the people who do not adapt for a long time, it will form premature ejaculation. We have to help this part of the patients to analyze their personality, so that they can try to adapt and overcome the psychological barriers. Couple’s education Couple’s education is also very important. Sometimes, premature ejaculation has a great relationship with the sexual partner. Some women are conservative, afraid of pain, unable to let go, twisted, these may be caused or aggravated by male premature ejaculation factors. We encountered such a situation, we have to analyze the specific problems, to solve the female ideological burden, so that the husband and wife to achieve a harmonious relationship. 3, behavioral therapy Behavioral therapy was a common means in the past, such as the 1950s and 1960s, due to the uncertainty of its efficacy and continuity, the method is used less and less. We only use it as a supplement to medication, including the dynamic stopping method, glans squeezing treatment, etc., which is usually carried out by a reproductive surgeon. 4, drug treatment With the development of science, we found that more and more patients with primary premature ejaculation is due to pentazocine in neuroenergetic metabolic disorders (abnormal regulation) caused by the treatment of the main application of pentazocine reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), which is to improve the neuroenergetic drugs that can prolong ejaculation time. In recent years there is a SSRI specifically designed for premature ejaculation, scientifically named Dapoxetine Hydrochloride. This is now internationally recognized as a very good drug in terms of safety and effectiveness. If the duration of premature ejaculation is very short, for example, within half a year, early diagnosis, early treatment, after regular use of medication, there is a 50% to 60% possibility of achieving a cure. If the duration of the disease is more than five years, it will be difficult to remove the root cause. At this point, we need to carry out lifelong maintenance treatment or long-term maintenance treatment.