Generally parents at home to children’s behavioral guidance and criticism of education are arbitrary: children after school do not concentrate on homework, but straight to the TV or computer, parents began to cherish the time of education …… This is a kind of educational misunderstanding, can not effectively solve the child’s problem. It is best to educate and criticize children at home. The family can choose a time during the week to sit together and communicate openly and honestly. Parents can take this opportunity to put forward their demands on their children, and the children can give their opinions on their parents. If the child recognizes the mistake after an equal exchange, the parents can urge the child to make a plan to correct the mistake. Children generally have high self-esteem and will take their own plans seriously. Don’t criticize your child at these times Although it is the right of parents to educate and supervise their children, it doesn’t mean that you can criticize your child anytime, anywhere, and as often as you like. There are some times when parents should not criticize and educate their children. 1, when you go out in the morning. Parents should help their children to greet the new day with a happy mood and say goodbye to them warmly, instead of letting them suffer from anger from the morning. 2, when eating together. Many parents usually do not take the time to accompany the child, only when eating to concentrate on facing the child, see what problems the child has, or suddenly think of what problems the child has, then start to educate the child. This will affect the child’s appetite, destroying the otherwise peaceful family time, making the child feel that eating with his parents is a painful thing, seriously affecting his physical and mental health. 3. When the parents’ temper turns bad. Parents have been very bad temper, it is easy to open their mouths to scold, the results hurt the child, but also damage their own loving image of parenthood. At this time, we must rest, and wait for our own peace of mind before opening their mouths. 4, when there is a direct conflict. The child said 8:00 p.m. back, the results of 10:00 p.m. to come back. Parents have long been harboring a bellyful of fire, this time if the opening, a direct conflict is bound to occur. It would be better to put things off, and then listen to the child’s explanation the next day. Moreover, parents show tolerance and generosity, will make the child consciously realize their own mistakes. Drawing on: the ancients criticized the child also talk about the timing of the ancients to criticize the timing of the education of children is also very concerned about, they believe that the young and the status of the humble people have faults, should not be blamed. The Qing Dynasty Chen Jiru that “the young have had, careful so that the blame of the person”. He believed that it was inappropriate to criticize a child in the following seven situations: 1. “Don’t blame the public”, i.e., don’t blame the child in front of the public. 2. 2. “Do not blame the child for being ashamed”, i.e., do not blame the child for being ashamed and regretful. (3) “Do not reprove at night,” i.e., do not reprove the child at night. 4. “Do not reprove your child when you are eating,” i.e., do not reprove your child when you are eating. 5. “Do not blame the child for celebrating,” i.e., do not blame the child for celebrating. 6. “Don’t blame the child for sorrow,” i.e., don’t blame the child when he is sad. 7. “Don’t blame the child for illness,” i.e., don’t blame the child when he or she is sick. If parents can criticize their children at the right time and in the right place with the right method of education, the children are easy to accept, and the effect of criticism is naturally good.