With the development of society, the family is also very careful about the training of children, especially the training of different types of children, there are many courses about early education in the market, these have a great inspirational effect on children, teaching them how to learn and master what they should and should not do in life, and to increase their interests and hobbies, to be a very happy child, in many early education courses Among the many early education programs, parents should pick the right one for their baby’s growth. The age of 0 to 3 is the most critical period for a person’s intellectual development, but many parents are not sure how this critical period should be grasped. Many of your child’s behaviors are determined before the age of three, and the focus is on whether you have given your child sufficient opportunities to learn and develop and give enough love. Observing your child is the first step You have a fine heart to observe your child, and this is the first step in the right direction. Parents’ thoughts are different from their children’s, so we have to test our children step by step. In emotional education, it is very important to understand your child’s personality. One’s emotional management is not to learn a lot of theories, but to understand your child and love this child in the process of treating him/her. Love is a learning process, in the slice of life, to understand the child’s needs, not to give him harm. Parents should be smart enough to understand whether their children are normal or not, not just give reprimands and punishments, but know that it is because you don’t understand them and end up giving them reprimands and punishments instead, and know that it is because you don’t understand them and end up giving them harm instead; children learn with their feelings, so parents should create situations to learn how to love people and let their children Let the child express what he or she wants or doesn’t want. It is not enough to just “teach” and “give”, but to interact with the child to learn how to give appropriately. There are many successful people in the world because they are confident in themselves, and most delinquent teenagers are not confident because their parents often tell them what they can’t and can’t have. Parent-child interaction affects future development In fact, it is not difficult for parents to find that their children do not necessarily want to be hugged, but want to know that their parents are around, so whether or not to hug is not the issue, but to understand what he wants, some parents simply to plug the pacifier solution, but this way of education is right? Zero year old education is so important because the behavior of the parents will affect the child, how the parent-child interaction will have a great impact on his future emotions. To do a good job in developing your child’s personality before the age of zero, parents must know how to use the right heart and make the right effort, so that you can make more effort in educating your child in the future. For example, I had to wake my child up for milk before work, but my child was sleeping heavily and would be unhappy to be woken up, so I thought about how to make him wake up happily. I will hold him to play with a doll, grab his hand and let him pat it, and talk to him so that he understands that this ritual means that he has to get up and know how to say hello to others. So it is important to create a good atmosphere to wake up. In addition, it is important to choose a babysitter, to know whether the babysitter will smile, is not sad face, so as not to bring negative emotions to the child. For example, if your child hates washing his face, parents should know how to bring good emotions to him first. You can hum a song while washing your own face to make your child feel that washing his face is a pleasant thing, and then ask him if he wants to wash it, so that he will have the psychology of anticipation and then enjoy it. This process seems to be playing, but also to do what should be done routinely, so discipline children do not have to be rigid, parents may wish to learn some cartoon words and fantasy, so that the child infected with your happy emotions. When parents feel happy doing this, your child will certainly also be happy; if you feel unhappy, the child will also feel unhappy, this is not with the right heart, make the right force. Children can build the foundation of good emotion and character through happy experiences, and gain the happiness of success. Education before the age of three depends on the parents to observe the needs of the child, not to listen to what others say, as long as the method is able to bring happiness, it is feasible; if you will feel disturbed, that method should not be used, because the child’s emotions will also be affected. Parents should be focused and attentive Focus and attentiveness are the best parenting methods. My child was diaper-free before he was a year old, but I was worried about forcing him, so I asked her how to train him. It turns out that every time the nanny takes him to the toilet, she puts water on the side, and sits on the toilet at a fixed time every day so that he develops the urge to poo, and over time he will know when he will relieve himself, or when he puts the tap on, he will have the urge to pee, and every time he is done, the nanny teaches him to pull the water, and learn to turn on the light and open the door, so that the child feels like playing. Remember to never scold him while he is learning, but let him learn to go on the toilet from the pleasure. As you can see, the method is important, and it takes focus and intention. For example, when my child could crawl, I would worry that he would easily get hurt, so I fenced off an area to limit his range of motion, but as he grew up he would topple things off, and even though I later strengthened the fence, I didn’t expect him to make more dangerous moves. I found that this method did not work, so I put the lid on the socket or put things away so that he would not be so easily curious; and he was curious about cooking, I was afraid he would get hurt so I put him in the doll car, but I did not expect his attitude to become very impatient, so I carried him to visit his father to cook, or gave him a toy spatula to let him gain a sense of participation. This shows that children are not controlled by restrictions, prohibitions or orders, but by understanding what he is curious about, and by satisfying his curiosity, he can be made less curious. But what if he is also curious about dangerous things? I would never encourage to scare a child, let’s say to let him touch hot water, because when he is still young, parents want to avoid exposing him to danger, so a good teaching is to create a good space, not to scare him. As the saying goes, “three years old is eighty”. 0 to 3 years old is the most critical period of a person’s intellectual development, but how to grasp this critical period, many parents are not clear. Many parents think their children eat well, or can’t wait to get their children to read and do math when they are very young. Play is the nature of children, and the right way to raise young children aged 0 to 3 is to let them learn through play, communicate with them more and play games. One of the toys that are suitable for young children is blocks. 9 months old children can start to sit alone and turn around flexibly, so you can let them play with simple blocks such as building up. In the process of building high, you can not only train your child’s hand-eye coordination, but also train your child’s finger fine motor skills. When you are a little older, you can let your child play with more complex blocks, such as letting your child build different shapes with blocks. This way the child’s finger coordination, spatial imagination and other skills in the game can be trained. Parents may wish to make some of their own targeted simple “earth toys”, and children play together. Homemade toys a: fishing. Suitable for children aged 1 to 1.5 years. Materials needed: several sheets of cardboard (cut into fish-shaped), several paper clips (to make fish hooks), thread, small wooden sticks (to make fishing rods), magnets (and cardboard stick together). This game can train the child’s overall ability, especially finger coordination, cognitive ability, etc. Homemade toys II: homemade pictures. Suitable for children aged 1.5 to 2 years old. Materials needed: paper, paintbrush. Parents can make some targeted pictures, such as drawing a complete horse and a horse missing a leg at the same time in front of the child, let the child point out the difference between the two pictures, such targeted pictures can train the child’s observation skills, but also to instill the concept of categories, numbers, etc., the role of enlightenment for children. Homemade toys three: golf clubs. For children over 1.5 years old. Materials needed: a plastic bottle, the mouth of the bottle can be rolled into a column of newspaper stuffed to extend the overall length; a small ball. This game can train the child’s arm strength, hand-eye coordination. The game is not just as simple as playing with toys, nor is it a personal matter for the child. The toy is a teaching tool and a physical bridge that can help parents communicate with their children. In addition, singing children’s songs with the child, playing story solitaire and other games are equally good choices for parents.