What is masturbation? Masturbation, also known as masturbation, has a narrow and a broad definition. The narrow definition is the use of the hands to stroke and stimulate one’s external genitals until orgasm is achieved. Broadly speaking, sexual masturbation refers to “any kind of stimulating behavior that produces sexual arousal and stimulates oneself”, i.e., any way of stroking and stimulating the genitals and other sensitive parts of the body in order to seek sexual pleasure and orgasm. Where does the term “masturbation” come from? There is a story in the Bible that says that when Onan, the son of Judah, lost his brother and left his wife without a son, Onan’s father ordered him to have sex with his sister-in-law in order to produce a son for his brother. Since Onan did not want to bear a son for his brother, he resorted to masturbation, interrupting sexual intercourse to discharge his semen on the ground, which is religiously known as illicit emission of semen and is not permitted; “leaving semen on the ground” “displeases the Lord, and the Lord kills Onan.” In the past, the term onanism was used for masturbation in which the semen was leaked out of the body, from which onanism is derived. The English noun masturbation its original meaning ma is manus hand sturbaton is transformed from stupare, refers to molestation or adultery, connotation for the hand to give vent to the meaning of sexual desire, some places use selfabuse, contains the meaning of masturbation. This is why the word “masturbation” is used in Japan and Taiwan. The original meaning of “obscene” is lustful, indulgent and unrestrained, so masturbation is derogatory, containing contempt. Since “kinky” is a derogatory term that gives people a bad feeling, I prefer to call it “masturbation”. Why do we masturbate? When a teenager reaches a certain age, the sex organs including penis, testicles, prostate and so on develop rapidly, and at the same time, under the action of androgen, sexual desire will be produced. Appetite and libido are the main signs of a healthy person. Libido is manifested by erection of the penis, seminal emission, masturbation and sexual intercourse. Ejaculation is the swelling of the fluid produced by the gonads that accumulates in the glands must be relieved to relieve the pressure in the glands, as is the case with urine and feces, which accumulate in the rectum and bladder making it very painful to produce a non-discharge is not enough to relieve the pressure on the organism. Sexual desire can be described as a physiological need, psychological satisfaction, spiritual comfort and health. In addition, the head of the penis is not clean, there is a buildup of urine scale, constantly stimulating the local nerves, causing an itching sensation, which is rubbed with the hand, scratching can also lead to masturbation. In childhood, the child himself strokes the penis, or adults are curious to play with the child’s penis, causing the child a special feeling, with age, the habit of stroking the penis is not removed, to puberty can not help but occur masturbation. Morning holding urine, bladder full, stimulate the nerves, so that the penis erection, their own hands to play, can also cause masturbation. Men into puberty to see the view of obscene books, pictures, or watch obscene videos, sensory stimulation, so that the sexual nerve impulse, induced masturbation. Correct understanding of masturbation! Modern medical science believes that masturbation is a common and normal phenomenon in the process of sexual maturity of young people, reasonable and moderate masturbation is harmless to the health of the body, and it is a reasonable excretion of sexual energy. In foreign countries, some scholars found that the United States has a history of masturbation of men accounted for 92% -97%, women accounted for 55% -68%. Poland, the former Soviet Union and other countries scholars survey also shows that during sexual maturity, about 93% -96% of healthy men have masturbation behavior. In recent years, domestic scholars have done some research on the status of masturbation and the mental health of masturbators. As early as in 1989-1990, some scholars conducted a survey of 20,000 cases of sexual civilization and found that 12.5% of the boys and 4.7% of the girls in secondary school students masturbated; 59.0% of the boys and 16.5% of the girls in college students masturbated; and in 2010, 7077 people participated in a network survey, which showed that 96.38% of the respondents had masturbated more than once, and 75.96% of them had masturbated more than once a month. Most people masturbate because they “do not have a regular sexual partner and need to release their sexual impulses” and “hope to have an orgasm from it”, and the rate of masturbation increases with age, and the rate of masturbation also tends to increase with age. As age increases, the rate of masturbation increases more rapidly in women than in men, but the rate of masturbation in men is still much higher than that in women. What are the benefits of moderate masturbation? Masturbation itself is a normal physiological phenomenon in the process of growth and development, and moderate masturbation is beneficial. 1, it is a safe way of sexual behavior, through which can release sexual pressure, better into the study, life. To a large extent, you can better contribute to the construction of the country; to a small extent, you can better go to study, to make money, to go to the happy (sex) life; 2, assist in the treatment of disease: chronic prostatitis, through regular masturbation ejaculation, the release of sexual energy, to reduce the perineum congestion, drainage of prostate fluid, so that the stagnation of the inflammatory cells, through the semen excretion of the body, to promote the recovery of the disease. Therefore, it is suitable for non-marital, no sexual partners of chronic prostatitis patients; for assisted reproduction: sperm extraction; or for patients with semen leukocytosis, masturbation sperm discharge is one of the very important methods of treatment. Prevent the occurrence of prostate cancer, British scholars found that, for men in their 50s, frequent masturbation said more than 1 time a week; compared with men of the same age who had not been whispering, the former prostate cancer risk reduced by 70%. Is masturbation harmful? Masturbation has long been thought to be “harmful”, so much so that it scares teenagers who masturbate. In addition, masturbation is considered morally depraved and even “morally corrupt”. In terms of health, it is extremely harmful because it hurts the “essence” of the innate essence. These phenomena are still prevalent in clinical practice. So that later sick, often will be blamed on their own masturbation habits, or think it is excessive masturbation caused. The traditional concept that semen with a “semen” word, so that people naturally associated with human “essence”. There is also the special function of sperm in the transmission of seed, more people feel responsible for the treasure. In fact, an ejaculation, the loss of sperm, protein and liquid, the human body does not have much impact. There is really no need to worry about the loss of semen and excellent. Although the number of masturbation is not much, but in view of the past those stereotypical views of the indoctrination, has constituted a spiritual and psychological impact, not only chagrin, and self-hatred, remorse, and even fear, pessimism, especially afraid that masturbation will affect the future of the ability to have sex, but can not be extracted from the frequent masturbation and liberation from the mental trauma. After marriage, there is a kind of skepticism and trying attitude towards their own sexual ability, in case of one or several times of unsatisfactory sex life, it will deepen this wrong point of view. In fact, masturbation does not affect sexual function, as a result of mental factors will occur sexual dysfunction. The harm of excessive masturbation? We say that adapted masturbation has no effect on the body, but please note that here is excessive masturbation, do not indulge in masturbation, such as once a day, or even several times a day, so that in the long run, will certainly lead to physical problems. 1, psychological burden: this is the main harm. There are mainly the following psychological states. Thinking that masturbation is an immoral and dirty thing; “one drop of semen, ten drops of blood” will affect the development of the body, resulting in poor mental health, memory loss, etc.; it will affect the future sex life; affect their socialization. 2, sexual dysfunction: masturbation is a strong and a little rough stimulation of the reproductive organs, men to seek ejaculation, women to obtain the pleasure of orgasm for the purpose. Some people call it “housework without a spouse”, generally speaking, masturbation local stimulation of the sex organs is stronger than the local stimulation of the sex organs during sexual intercourse, so the sex organs are accustomed to strong stimulation will only appear under the excitement, invariably improve the stimulation of various sensory functions “threshold”, once normal sexual intercourse is carried out, it will not be possible for the sex organs to be stimulated. “, once the normal sex life, local sexual stimulation may not be able to reach the degree of masturbation strong, so men will not ejaculate in sexual intercourse, in women, it is not easy to produce orgasm. Generally speaking, masturbation does not lead to premature ejaculation. But clinically, many patients with premature ejaculation, they blame premature ejaculation on previous excessive masturbation. In fact, this wrongly accused masturbation. Masturbation is equivalent to our treatment of premature ejaculation maneuver practice, so masturbation not only does not lead to premature ejaculation, but also the treatment of premature ejaculation of an external treatment (see space premature ejaculation treatment content). This kind of premature ejaculation need to look for other reasons, the most common reason is due to excessive masturbation induced male aseptic prostatitis, inflammation leads to prostate congestion and edema, so that the sexual nerve is too sensitive, premature ejaculation. 3, induced male chronic prostatitis or women pelvic stasis syndrome: before and after masturbation for a period of time, the sexual organs will be a large amount of blood congestion in a hurry. In men, in addition to the penis, the most powerful congestion of the prostate, frequent masturbation to make the prostate frequently congested, resulting in aseptic prostatitis, back pain, urination, urination end of the white liquid drops, urethral burning sensation, perineal discomfort, and even drowsiness, fatigue and other symptoms. If a woman masturbates frequently, the pelvic organs, such as the uterus, ovaries, fallopian tubes, bladder, and even the blood vessels on the pelvic wall will be stagnant and dilated, and so the symptoms of lower back pain, lower body swelling, perineal discomfort will also ensue. 4, mental depression, back pain and fatigue, memory loss, etc.: these are due to masturbation too often, is a reaction of the body’s self-protection. 5, due to frequent excessive force hand bowl, some patients frequent masturbation, suffering from “radial tube syndrome”, that is, we usually say the mouse hand. 6, there are masturbation death 1 case reports. May be over-excited, induced body primary disease, sudden death. Avoid violent masturbation as well as individual secluded good! 1, avoid rough techniques, so as not to injure the genitals: Numbness of the glans: some people masturbate too heavily, which can cause the glans to feel dull or even traumatized. Glans rash: glans rash is mostly seen in people with long foreskin, which is caused by the stimulation of urinary scale in the foreskin and induced or aggravated by masturbation. 2, avoid some special ways of masturbation. Such as habitual masturbation with legs holding the penis, which can easily lead to genital injury. 3, avoid the use of objects inserted into the urethra, vaginal masturbation. The use of wire, pencil, hairpin, etc. inserted into the urethra masturbators, can occasionally encounter. Or insert the penis into the bottle, so that pull out is not uncommon. In recent years, masturbation through the anus has become more and more common, and it is seen that a lot of things are left in the rectum, such as snow cream bottles, dildos, beer bottles and so on. These need to be avoided. How to prevent excessive masturbation? 1, distraction method: actively participate in sports, full arrangement of spare time, or more physical labor, so that they have no time to masturbate. 2, learning method: learning sexual health knowledge, correct understanding of the human body, correctly recognize the harm of excessive masturbation, to eliminate the mystery of sex. 3, to “evil” method: establish a correct outlook on life, exclude distractions, focus on work and study, do not want to get into the wrong, insist on not reading obscene books, obscene paintings, do not watch obscene videos. 4, sleep law: to develop the habit of going to bed to sleep, do not lie in bed thinking; do not rush to the nest, to be sleepy, immediately go to bed to sleep. Before getting up in the morning is also the most likely to occur masturbation time, have urine do not hold, timely discharge, to prevent penile erection. Wake up in the morning in time, wake up that is up not to love the nest. When there is a strong idea, you can repeat the squat, push-ups, etc., through the exercise to divert attention. Try to minimize the time spent alone. What is moderate masturbation? As opposed to frequent masturbation once a day or several times a day, there is no uniform term for moderation. With reference to male semen loss, masturbation once every 1~2 weeks is quite consistent with the physiological pattern. Because it varies from person to person, it’s not a big problem to go up and down a bit on this number. The key is to see if your body has not appeared uncomfortable condition, if there is no discomfort, then OK! If there is discomfort, then you show that you have to be careful, may be more. (Men only) A graphic analogy for masturbation! You can compare masturbation can be compared to drinking alcohol. Drinking alcohol is a normal behavior, drinking too much is certainly harmful to health, less drink a little to promote blood circulation, happy or disillusioned when a little less drink can also be active atmosphere, but do not drink people we can not force him to drink!