1, don’t let the pregnant mom alone in the kitchen busy In traditional Chinese thinking, men should be away from the kitchen. In traditional Chinese thinking, men should stay away from the kitchen. However, I despise such a father. Especially during the mom’s pregnancy, but also can not stay in the kitchen for a long time. We often think that factories and streets are places where dust and toxic gases are more dense, but in fact, just the opposite, the kitchen is a more polluted place. On the one hand, the composition of gas or liquefied petroleum gas are very complex, combustion in the air will produce a variety of extremely harmful to the human body of the gas, coupled with frying food produced by the fumes, so that the kitchen has been polluted even more seriously, these for the harm to mom is self-evident it. Dear Dad, you don’t want me to become stupid because of this poison, right? 2, don’t let the pregnant mom too much contact Many mothers stay at home to raise the baby, always feel too idle, too heavy work is afraid to move, so they often use detergent, toilet cleaner to clean the kitchen, bathroom and bathroom. Dad, you should know that these jobs containing detergents should also be your responsibility! Seemingly harmless household detergents can have a damaging effect on human health, especially when mixing toilet bowl cleaners with disinfectants, which is even more harmful to pregnant women and fetuses. Therefore, any work that involves hands-on contact with all kinds of detergents, including laundry detergent, it is better not to let the wife do it, and the father will take the lead. Even if the father to do these cleaning work, do not put the detergent, disinfectant mixed use, bathroom washing class, toilet cleaning class, kitchen washing class supplies must be separated. 3, do not keep a beard, remember to shave long Although, if the dad has a beard, it will look a little more man, but dads do not know is that the thick beard will adsorb and shelter many germs and air pollutants, once the mom and dad have intimate contact, the pollutants in the beard will enter the wife’s inhalation and digestive tract, easy to increase the chances of fetal development deformities, caused by the respiratory tract or digestive tract Infection. Therefore, it is better for the father who has the habit of keeping a beard to shave it off in the first six months of his wife’s pregnancy. During mom’s pregnancy, dads should be careful to shave their beards regularly. As for play cool these things, or wait for me to say after birth! 4, mom and dad love to be careful in pregnancy, mom and dad in the end can not love it? In fact, when we grow more than three months, mom and dad can still love each other, but must be careful. Before the third month of pregnancy, the embryonic tissue in the uterine wall is not attached firmly enough, if the sex life is frequent or rough action, it is easy to stimulate the uterus contraction lead to premature rupture of the membranes; and in the 30 weeks of pregnancy, sex is easy to bring foreign germs into the vagina, causing infections, resulting in premature birth. Therefore, relatively speaking, the middle of pregnancy is a good time for mom and dad to love each other. The father-to-be needs to restrain himself appropriately, be considerate of his wife, moderate the number of times, choose a position that does not compress the fetus, and also use a condom so that the prostaglandins in the semen do not stimulate the uterus and cause strong contractions. Of course, if the mother’s physical state fails to achieve this state, then dad you’d better endure it! 5, don’t swallow clouds smoke at home Nowadays, most of the mothers and fathers are able to do, in the pre-pregnancy “mountain forest”, reduce or direct non-smoking. But some dads start smoking again after mom’s pregnancy and let mom unknowingly inhale second-hand smoke. Passive smokers are 5 times more likely than smokers to have benzo(a)pyrene (a carcinogen) in their bodies, and in severe cases, it can poison the brain of the fetus and cause the baby to miscarry or give birth prematurely. Therefore, for the sake of my health, whether before or after mom’s pregnancy dad should not smoke, at least not in front of his wife. If the father-to-be is addicted to smoking at home, he can go out or smoke in the corridor, or use some smoking cessation supplies, such as spraying smoking cessation drops into the nose, eating smoking cessation candy or using smoking cessation toothpaste. 6, do not not look at the knowledge of pregnancy and childbirth For most mothers, from the day they learned of pregnancy, they are actively in how to be a good mother and prepare, at this point, the father will often be ignored. You should know that it is extremely important for both mom and me that dads know whether or not to take maternity care knowledge seriously. Therefore, after mom’s pregnancy, dad should also accompany his wife to choose more books and magazines on maternal health, go to maternity school with her sometime, and assist mom in practicing midwifery health exercises. When I am about to come out, dad also need to help mom overcome panic with full confidence, reduce her psychological pressure, so that I can deliver out more smoothly. 7, don’t be loud and small to the pregnant mom Some moms and dads get along with each other and have entered the stage of nothing to worry about. But dads need to know, after pregnancy mommy, not only physical changes will occur, psychological will become more sensitive and fragile. Once the dads let her think too much, mom will fall into a bitter and irritable mood, thus affecting the belly of me! So, dads must remember, no matter what happens to mom, you should always hug her and sincerely say, “You’re so beautiful!” and make her feel loved by being more considerate. You can also help your mom to buy some beautiful, decent and comfortable maternity clothes. When mom is happy, I am naturally happy too.