How should we think about cosmetic surgery?

Love of beauty is human nature, a manifestation of love of life and a legitimate right of every citizen. Human beings can transform nature, make spaceships travel in space, and carry out human organ transplants, then, human beings also have the desire and talent to transform their own appearance and shape. Marx pointed out that “people’s pursuit of beauty is a symbol of social progress.” The emergence of cosmetic surgery is the inevitable social progress and scientific development. It is a product of the material and spiritual civilization of society. Only when people no longer to fill their bellies and labor, and with the improvement of cultural quality, breaking through the boundaries of traditional concepts, recognizing the social significance of beauty, the value and importance of beauty, only after the demand for cosmetic surgery to dress themselves up more dashing, more beautiful, more perfect, in order to adapt to modern life. At the same time, only when people understand the scientific knowledge of cosmetic surgery, and has a high aesthetic quality, can recognize the influence of their own appearance of the physical beauty of the defects, or to find their own want to be beautiful and beautiful after the crux of the problem, will make up their minds, and drum up the courage to enter the high-level beauty halls, the purchase of imported cosmetics and brand-name clothing money, used to do cosmetic surgery. When cosmetic surgery was just emerging in foreign countries, it was also discriminated against, criticized and even condemned by society. It was thought that only people who were mentally abnormal asked for cosmetic surgery. It was thought that changing one’s appearance through surgery was a treacherous act of destroying God’s masterpiece without authorization. However, “Necessity is the mother of invention”. Need, is the driving force behind the development of a discipline. In order to social interaction, job interviews, marriage and other aspects of the need to choose a spouse, some of the society because of the defective appearance and low self-esteem of the people, desire through cosmetic surgery, to improve their appearance, so that they become more beautiful, in order to enhance self-confidence and competitiveness, and to seek good luck. The need of the society has led to the emergence of cosmetic surgery. People need cosmetic surgery, cosmetic surgery’s remarkable cosmetic effect conquers people: the combination of the two is irresistible. Cosmetic surgery, after a battle, finally overcame the old forces and old traditions, with the unstoppable momentum of rapid development, become a new branch of the discipline, in the western society has won a prominent position. 1970s, many developed countries have set up the Society of Cosmetic Surgery, the International Association of Aesthetic Plastic Surgery (1SAPS), cosmetic plastic surgery literature magazines, monographs, widely circulated, academic exchanges are very good. Widely circulated, academic exchanges are very active …… in the past is not emphasized in cosmetic surgery, become a surgical “hot”, to an unprecedented rate of development. Cosmetic surgery is recognized and valued by society. The discrimination and prejudice against cosmetic surgery has disappeared. No one will worry about being talked about and ridiculed because they want to make up and dress themselves up through surgery, and cosmetic surgery is as common as going to the dentist. China’s cosmetic surgery started very late. Widely oriented to the masses only after the reform and opening up, and also as in the early stage of the development of cosmetic surgery abroad, many people hold prejudice against it and carry out non-sense, and it is more common and more powerful. A northeastern girl wrote to say that people who do cosmetic surgery there are compared with dilettantes, hooligans and bad women. A middle-aged woman in a county in Hebei, after returning from cosmetic surgery, was satirized, ridiculed, and talked about by people around her, and condemned and coldly treated by her whole family. “At this age, you still go to do this kind of shameful thing.” Her children could not hold up their heads because of this. She could not withstand the enormous public pressure, and had to go to the operating table, the well-done nose back to its original state. She said with deep feeling: “The spring breeze of modern life, when can it blow all over the land of God ……” A girl in the rural suburbs of Beijing did saddle nose correction and blepharoplasty, became very beautiful, looks very foreign. When she returned home happily, she was strongly criticized and criticized by her whole family. When the village people heard that she went to the city for cosmetic surgery, they came to “watch” her as if they were visiting a rare animal. Gossip flew all over the place for a while, causing a big fuss in the city. Strong social pressure, the family forced, despite their own reluctance, finally had to do a very wonderful good-looking nose back to its original state, which was able to quell the “people’s anger”! It’s a good thing her family has double eyelids, so they didn’t force her to change her beautifully done double eyelids back to single eyelids. If that had happened, I would have been in deep shit! I would not have been able to change back to mono eyelids, even if I had been able to. Older people are more conservative in their thinking, while young people are more open and receptive to new things. A Beijing girl, to do cosmetic surgery “planning” for a long time, due to parental opposition, a long time can not wish. Once, taking advantage of both parents on a business trip to live in the hospital, waiting for surgery. Unexpectedly, both parents returned to Beijing in advance. Learned of the hospitalization, hard to her “alive” to “pull” back. Another Beijing girl, on the cosmetic surgery will be determined, softly, finally convinced the mother. But her father and brother were adamantly opposed, especially her father, who threatened to die if she insisted on doing it! The girl defied all odds and insisted on the surgery, crying and fussing. Finally, after my persuasion and mediation, did the operation, very successful, the whole family happy. The human face is not a big place, but it is exposed and intuitive. Through surgery, even a small change will adjust the “whole picture” and make subtle changes. Many people want to have surgery but are afraid of being criticized. So, put forward the conditions of people crying and laughing: “Director Zhou, you can not through surgery, so that I become beautiful, and let people can not see ……” I said: “You pull back, I do not have this ability. The purpose of my surgery is to hope that there is a change, become as beautiful as possible. The fear is this: you and I have paid the price, and as a result there is little change or gain. When you have surgery, there is a change, and when there is a change, people can see it (strangers can’t always see it). You change a hairstyle and there is a change, let alone surgery. Cosmetic surgery to be beautiful and invisible at the same time, I haven’t learned that yet, hire someone else!” Living for the sake of others, afraid of people’s comments, people with many concerns, we do not easily agree to surgery, usually refused to treat. Sincerity is the spirit, doctors are happy to operate for those who have mature surgical motives, fearless, and seek the “true scripture” of the people. The social environment of reform and opening up for the rapid development of China’s cosmetic surgery, opened up a broad road. In the past, there were very few people who had cosmetic surgery, and many of them were “first and last”. In recent years, to our hospital asked to do cosmetic surgery by the past few percent, soared to account for 95.16% of outpatient surgery. Many parents are looking out for their family’s “ugly ducklings” in terms of job hunting, interviews, marriages, and socializing, and are taking the initiative to seek medical treatment, desiring to change their appearance through cosmetic surgery. Almost all of them seek the consent and support of their family members to undergo cosmetic surgery. Last year, a rural boy from Qian’an County, Hebei Province, had small eyes with single eyelids, and his fiancĂ©e insisted that he go to Beijing to have his eyes made bigger before she married him. I fulfilled her wish. After the surgery, she tied the knot and established a happy family. The occurrence of some of the above situations, on the one hand, is due to the lack of awareness and in-depth understanding of cosmetic surgery, there are all sorts of doubts; on the other hand, some old-fashioned thinking, over-emphasis on inner beauty, to the 2l century still think that cosmetic surgery is mentally abnormal, is the love of “stinking beauty”, the outlook on life, the world outlook is incorrect, quality of thought. Problems. In fact, cosmetic surgery is no different from the gorgeous and expensive clothing, fur clothing, high-grade cosmetics, etc., and is much better than this type of “cosmetic beauty”. In fact, it is a surgical cosmetic surgery, is fundamentally make people beautiful, and keep a long time, it gives the simple beauty, natural beauty is “make-up beauty” can not be compared. It is the “fundamental” measures and “hardware” construction for those who have defects in appearance or body shape. One-time “investment”, but it is possible to get “more beautiful than the clothes” ideal change and “beauty for life” permanent effect. And this kind of “investment”, it is possible to get a very rich return, Korea’s first big beauty Kim Hee Sun is a very typical example. Therefore, for a normal person, “hardware” and “software” gap can not be too large, in order to external beauty and resort to cosmetic surgery, not surprising. On the contrary, those who pay no attention to their own “hardware facilities”, not only their own refusal but also oppose others to enjoy the fruits of modern civilized medicine, is the real “abnormal”, “unwise! “! An “open” mind is the only way to keep up with the times!