Doctor: this …… this ……… indicators are not very good ah Patient: hmm hmm hmm Doctor: you do not have a good effect of abdominal dialysis here hey Patient: then what to do? Doctor: Did you pay attention to your diet? The patient: I don’t want to change the doctor: I don’t want to change the doctor: You can’t live like this. Patient: Oh, I have money, just get a new kidney. Without waiting for the doctor’s explanation, the patient hurriedly asked the doctor to prescribe the medicine and left the clinic, and the doctor shook his head helplessly and said: what a pity. The doctor told me that there were many such patients, probably because they did not trust us enough. I said to him, “No, it’s not. In fact, the patient’s psychological demons have not been removed, which is also the broken window effect. The broken window effect is about a broken window in a building, which, if not repaired, will lead to more windows being broken, or even the whole building being demolished. This patient is because of the kidney problem in his body, and did not follow the doctor’s request to treat and discipline his life, as a result, his body will get worse and worse. The patient herself can also be seen to be unaccepting and pessimistic about her condition. She hopes she can have a new and healthy body, so she gives up on herself and does not cooperate with the treatment, hoping to finally regain her health by kidney replacement. This patient was psychologically defeated by her condition. When we face the irreversible condition, how can we cheer ourselves up and not give up? 1. Keep thinking, don’t run away. Maybe your condition can’t be reversed, but as long as you actively cooperate with your doctor and keep a good life, you can definitely do a benign keep. 2, to give yourself time, try to comfort yourself, to know how to tolerate yourself and often encourage yourself. I think to be able to appropriate alone, first of all, to sort out their own state, and then to talk to friends, so as to get the understanding of friends. 3, do not stop reading, especially some highly recognized books, from the book to find positive ideas to inspire themselves. 4.Participate in some patient exchanges, because some things are just that – only people with the same experience can feel each other’s warmth. 5.To try to get in touch with more things that can enhance personal value after personal emotions become a little better, such as: to carry out interested interest classes, to participate in some activities that assist the condition. 6, to ensure a fixed period of moderate exercise, exercise after the secretion of dopamine will make you happy mood. 7, and doctors to maintain communication, will be able to share their ideas to the doctor, listen to the doctor to give professional advice, believe in hearsay theory will only make yourself worse. Finally, I would like to give patients a message: there is no incurable injury, no sinking that cannot be ended, all that is lost will return in another way. Long-term bedridden patients, due to prolonged pressure on the body, have disrupted blood circulation, leading to ischemia of the skin that causes bed sores. Bed sores are troublesome to deal with, and prevention is the most important thing. Patients with bedsores generally have poor nutritional status, so it is most important to make good nutritional supplements, eat more protein-rich foods such as fish, eggs, sea cucumbers, etc., and turn over once every 2-3 hours; once a week, patients should be scrubbed all over, both for good hygiene and for timely detection of the patient’s skin condition. If you find that the local cloth skin pressure red, should immediately lift high pressure red parts, so as not to induce ulcers. Those who are completely unable to take care of themselves can be attached to the use of air mattresses.