Mrs. Guo said: her daughter is 4 years old and 7 months old, but her height is only 99cm, shorter than children of the same age, and her bone density has been measured without calcium deficiency. But recently, I found that my daughter seems to have a low self-esteem, the kindergarten teacher said that she does not want to play with taller people every time, and does not communicate with these students. After that, we also noticed that our child would stand on the bench and talk to her cousins when she played with them at home. On one occasion, we also found the child saying things like “I want to grow taller”. My daughter is very concerned about her height, is there a psychological problem? How can I guide my child not to have low self-esteem because of her height? According to Miao Zhuojin, a child psychologist, Napoleon was a short man and his generals were all much taller than him, and he once said seriously that I could always eliminate this gap if necessary. The cult of height in human society comes from evolution, taller represents better development, there is an advantage in survival competition, but this is limited to the primitive society, modern society is to survive by wisdom, and wisdom and height have nothing necessarily related. At present, from the performance of Mrs. Guo’s daughter, it is true that she has some inferiority complex about being short, but the guidance method is not difficult. 1, do not talk about the disadvantages of short in front of the child, such talk, whether explicit or implicit, is to imply that the child is not as tall as others, you can praise her physical strength, so that she accepts their own strong, recognized their own body. When a child says, “I want to grow taller,” parents can raise their arms and say, “Baby is strong! It will get taller and taller!” 2, more take your child to exercise, exercise both to help grow taller and stronger, whether running or swimming, can make your child feel their own strength. 3, in communication with the child to focus on her intelligence and wisdom, so that she feels that the values of parents is not from the physical height, parents at this time to set an example, read more, watch more connotative television programs, less play cell phones less soap operas, so that the child immersed in a meaningful life, feel the power of wisdom. This power can take root in her heart through parental leadership and recognition, gradually growing and becoming stronger, replacing the inferiority complex in height. As the child understands more and more, especially when she discovers this strength about herself, she will have more and more courage to interact with her taller classmates and will no longer be bothered by her height.