Many parents do not pay much attention to communication between parents and children, resulting in communication barriers with their children. Communication between parents and children is very important, a good parent-child relationship will make children feel that they are growing up surrounded by love, so that children are often more optimistic and confident. So parents must pay attention to parent-child communication, the following author will introduce some tips to enhance parent-child relationships. Every pair of parents want to raise a healthy and intelligent child, and the healthy growth of children just material satisfaction is far from enough, they need more is the parental care and love, and spiritual communication. Many parents do not know how to communicate with their children, and over time, a deep generation gap has arisen. The so-called “good words three winter warm, bad words in June cold”, this is the most incisive summary of language communication. Of course, parent-child communication is not only verbal communication, but verbal communication is usually the most common way of expression in communication. So how should parents communicate with their children parent-child communication? 1, parents should pay attention to the feelings of the child If the child is outside the aggrieved, or encountered what is unhappy, the mood will certainly not be good, this time it is very necessary to parental care. But if parents just keep telling their children “it’s nothing to be upset about”, “it’s okay, be strong”, it will make children feel that their parents can’t understand their feelings at all, rather than “it’s hard for you to be upset It’s hard for you to feel bad, right? If it were me I would also be very sad”, so as to reflect a kind of empathy, the child will be more comfortable after hearing the heart. 2, parents should pay attention to the child’s reaction and attitude Some parents are anxious, or usually busy with work, when talking to their children, often in a hurry to express their opinions, hoping that the child can behave according to their words to do. Many times they don’t even listen carefully to the child’s words before issuing orders and instructions to the child. This often makes children feel difficult to communicate with their parents, and the generation gap will grow deeper over time. 3, when talking to children to pay attention to the way parents must pay attention to the way when talking to children, when the child asked a question, to first understand his real meaning, and then do the answer to the child’s needs. Try to avoid speaking in a negative tone of voice, such as “you order you ……”, “I warn you …… “, “I count to 1, 2, 3, or ……”, such words not only do not have any meaning, but will make the child feel disgusted. 4, parents should know how to enrich their children’s life experience Most of the topics parents communicate with their children are from life, so they should know how to enrich their children’s life experience and cultivate their curiosity. For example, parents can often take their children to observe various things around them, flowers and trees, vehicles and pedestrians, department store windows, etc. can become the material for conversation. This will not only improve the child’s powers of observation, but also further enhance the parent-child relationship.