It happens to parents all the time: when a child asks “How did I get here?” Does this make you feel uncomfortable, or does it make you worry about why your child is concerned about the topic of “sex”? What is your attitude towards this question? Nowadays, parents may have some “past experiences”, we also asked “how did I come from” when we were kids, but we got mostly god responses, such as “I picked it up”. . Of course, now we as parents will not be so arbitrary answer. So, today’s sharing will help you how to deal with this problem. First of all, parents should not think of this question as too complicated for their children, who are at a stage where they are curious about the objective world. “How did I come to be” is actually just like other curious questions that children usually ask. Therefore, parents do not have to be secretive about this issue, let alone prohibit their children from asking or communicating such curiosity. If parents don’t talk to their children about sex, they may think sex is scary or embarrassing. In fact, sex education can answer children’s curiosity about sex, but also use this opportunity to teach children self-protection, etc., to avoid excessive fear and worry. The answer to the question should be different for different age groups. If a child asks where he or she is from, he or she can answer that he or she was born by his or her mother. If the child then asks, you can say that because the parents and very much love each other, the father planted a seed in the mother’s body, and then the baby grew up and was born in the mother’s stomach. Of course it is important to tell the child a short story as usual to avoid difficult to understand terms. In the older classes or lower elementary school, parents can tell stories and illustrate the specific changes that occur inside the mother’s body with a child’s sex education picture book or cartoon illustrations. This is also a good time to guide your child to think about how he or she once saw an aunt pregnant or how she behaved differently. In upper elementary school and even middle school, boys and girls begin to experience physical changes as boys begin to ejaculate and girls have their first period. This is a good time to talk specifically about sperm, eggs, and the uterus, both to facilitate children’s understanding and to improve the effectiveness of sex education. Parents should further emphasize the importance of protecting their children. The parents should be careful when answering 1. Try to be truthful, ask questions and answer them simply, otherwise it will only make the children more confused. 2, parents pay attention to the tone of voice, do not answer with an angry attitude, will make the child feel embarrassed and ashamed. 3, if the child does not continue to ask questions, parents do not have to continue to explain the deeper knowledge. 4, to carry out a special parent-child reading, this time you can ask the child’s thoughts on the topic. It is easy for parents to understand how much their children know and better give them answers.