The manifestation of low self-esteem Doing things without initiative, not dare to practice by themselves Some children always like to say “I don’t understand”, “I can’t”, “I can’t”, when faced with the choice is even more do not know what to do. When faced with a choice, they don’t know what to do. When you see this kind of situation in your child, parents should be careful. This situation is most likely related to the fact that parents do everything for their children or criticize their children at every turn. Therefore, in the face of this situation, at home, parents should try to let go of the child to solve their own things, to create more opportunities for children to exercise, to help children master some basic skills. Letting go and letting the child accomplish some simple things that are within his or her ability gradually develops the child’s self-confidence. Of course, encouragement is also very important. Even if your child just makes a small progress, don’t forget to encourage him or her, and don’t criticize him or her too often. Avoiding competitions and competitiveness and not daring to show themselves in front of others Some children are too shy and feel incompetent in front of others, thinking that they are not as good as others. As a result, they may avoid competitions and dare not show themselves in front of others, lest their perceived weaknesses are discovered by others and they are criticized by their parents.