The psychological guidance for the second child mainly includes the following aspects: 1, give a sense of security: parents should spend some time and energy to show care and love to the first child, so that the first child feel that there is a younger brother or sister, parental love and care is not reduced, in the psychological sense of security; 2, establish a sense of ownership: after having a second child, to let the first child to establish enough ownership spirit, the sense of being a brother or sister The first one is to make sure that you have a certain amount of responsibility, and at the same time, let the second child to participate in the care, such as putting to sleep or help handing bottles, when the second child to participate in the care of the behavior, parents should give enough affirmation, can increase the sense of ownership; 3, avoid neglect: in the process of care of the second child, parents do not put all their energy on the second child, to avoid neglect of the first child and thus cause psychological shadows.