There was once a movie titled “Whose Youth is Not Lost”, where the unruly nature of adolescence leaves a stamp on one’s unrepentant youth. So what is puberty? Adolescence is a transitional period from the gradual development of children into adults, is the key period of rapid growth and development of the human body, but also after infancy, the second growth and development of the peak period. The World Health Organization (WHO) defines puberty as the period between 10 and 20 years of age. In general, girls begin and end puberty about 2 years earlier than boys. Youth is coming, like a big enemy In the face of adolescent children, parents will have varying degrees of fear, in fact, the parents’ reaction is quite normal. Because adolescent children are always looking forward to the future and the past, want to pursue the perfect but left with flaws. This contradictory psychology, so that their behavior in the eyes of adults seem so ridiculous and boring, but in the eyes of the child is very significant. Parents do not understand their children and impose restrictions on them, which leads to a growing and escalating conflict between parents and children. If we understand the psychological characteristics of adolescents in advance, to know ourselves and the enemy, so that we will not be in danger, then the contradiction will naturally be solved. The following is an introduction to the psychological characteristics of adolescence: 1, the emotional characteristics of adolescence: general adolescent mood fluctuations, sometimes may feel happy, sunny, full of spring, and sometimes on the sad face, cloudy. May be because of a small thing on the storm, can be used “June day child face” to describe. 2, the characteristics of interpersonal communication in adolescence: in adolescence, the teenagers, their circle of interaction gradually shifted from the family to peers, classmates. Communicate with their peers, activities, make friends with like-minded classmates, they have nothing to say to each other, inseparable, and regard friendship as supreme, and even for the friends of both sides of the knife also have no hesitation. 3, the emotional characteristics of adolescence: in this period, the feelings of adolescents from the original love for their loved ones, expanding to classmates, teachers, stars, scientists and leaders to reverence and follow. At the same time the moral outlook has also changed, to successful people, celebrities worship to the ground, to bad people and bad things hate, they pursue fairness and justice, once they find that someone has selfish thoughts, they will scoff, just because they can not compromise in real life and accommodate different opinions of people and things, so it is easy to be hurt. My youth is not confused The various changes that occur in adolescents are the inevitable result of the physiological and psychological development of puberty, and they are normal manifestations of the process of transformation of adolescents from immaturity to maturity. If our children have similar “problems”, as parents should maintain a calm mind, with a positive attitude, scientific knowledge, the correct method to guide children. We need to understand and accept our children and be their friends. The greatest desire of adolescent children is to desire respect and independence, and hope that others treat them as adults and as equals. This requires parents to change their roles and educational concepts, changing the condescending, commanding one-way education to an equal, exploratory two-way education. From simply caring about their children’s lives to guiding their children’s development and growth, they should strive to become their children’s mentors and friends.