Sex is born with the mind, no normal psychological desire will never be satisfied with married life, nor will there be an adequate erection. This also shows how important psychological activity is to normal sexual life. The causes of impotence are complex, and the vast majority of people suffer from a combination of multiple etiologies. At the same time, we are able to find psychological factors in every patient’s experience of the disease. The completion of normal sexual activity requires not only the physical health of both men and women, but also a healthy mental and psychological state. Psychological desire is the initial initiator of penile erection, and also plays a role in promoting and maintaining penile erection. The following are common psychological factors that affect penile erectile dysfunction are. 1, the daily relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious: the lack of communication between husband and wife, the decline in the attractiveness of the female (affected by age, appearance and feelings), or the strong female, low female sexual desire, can affect the erection of the penis, and this condition can develop into impotence over time. In the UK, there was a study on this, and 47% of the men thought that disharmony with the woman was one of the causes of their impotence; this view was even higher among the wives, 68% of whom thought that disharmony in the relationship was one of the causes of impotence. Sexual desire is the basis of sexual life, intercourse in the condition of no desire, its sexual intercourse process often can not be carried out smoothly, the process of erection initiation, maintenance, completion of intercourse and orgasm will be affected. 2, excessive sex worship and lack of knowledge: in general, the current society has a conservative attitude towards sexual knowledge. From elementary school, secondary school all the way to university, there is not a system of formal education on sexual knowledge. Most people lack sexual knowledge, artificially create a sense of sexual mystery. Excessive admiration and yearning for sexual life, thus causing psychological pressure. Due to the existence of the above factors, there are often excessive psychological expectations of sex life, but also generate greater psychological pressure. Therefore, once there is real sex life, it is also easy to be nervous and affect the erectile function, or even the penis cannot be erected at all during the coitus. Because of the inconsistency between the feeling of real sex and its expectations, there will be a gradual decline in desire and even boredom with sex. 3, the first sexual life is not satisfied: the wedding night is beautiful, but, for many people, the first sexual life sometimes may not be good. Due to the newlywed over-excitement, while due to experience or lack of knowledge of sexual life, it is not uncommon for newlyweds to ejaculate too quickly, or even unable to insert. If both men and women fail to understand this problem correctly, erectile and ejaculatory dysfunction, or even severe impotence, can occur. The male partner is prone to low self-esteem, nervousness and frustration with this problem, and thus finds various reasons to avoid having intercourse with his wife, while the female partner is often sarcastic and sarcastic about the male partner’s problems in addition to painful, or even chooses to divorce. In fact, the first sexual contact is not satisfied, and even sexual life is not successful is very common, the couple should be prepared to face together, the female side more can not take the blame and despise attitude. The man is also unnecessarily discouraged, but positive multiple attempts, but also to find a doctor’s advice. 4, bad sexual experience: the attitude of the female partner and the previous sexual life, but also in the male partner’s psychological bane, affecting erectile function. ① from the sexual partner’s ridicule such as ridicule penis too small and short time, the boyfriend over feel inferior, resulting in sex life when not confident. ②Fear of pregnancy or fear of being discovered during premarital sex. ③ Sexual abuse during childhood. ④Unexpected stimulation There are patients who are stimulated by unexpected events during sex (for example, someone suddenly intruding, or other dangerous unexpected situations, etc.), and thereafter every time they have sex, they will associate the same scenario and become impotent. All of these factors can affect the psychological state during sex, which further affects erectile function. 5, sexual orientation or special sexual response patterns: one of the better known cases is homosexuality, and the typical homosexual is only interested in the same sex. There are also some men that are ‘self-indulgent’ type, only able to get better pleasure in a certain way of stimulation, the pleasure is weaker in the process of normal sexual life, therefore, the sexual interest in normal sexual life is greatly reduced, normal sexual life will have erectile difficulties. For example, some people are interested in masturbation or ejaculation in special positions, and have no desire for the female partner, or even if they have sex, they will not have pleasure. Therefore, there is no desire to have sex with your wife, and your erection is bound to be affected. 6, work and life stress: physical and psychological discomfort is related to work and life, impotence is no exception. The fast pace of work and life, stress, discontent, etc., will certainly cause anxiety, depression, tension, and the body is also prone to fatigue, which is often sexual desire is not strong, the number of sexual intercourse is also unconsciously reduced, the quality of sex life, including erectile function will also be discounted. The men in the fast pace are more prone to impotence, which is one of the reasons for the increase in the incidence of impotence in the last series of years. For patients suffering from impotence, self-regulation is also important, including exercise, stress reduction, regulation of psychological state is important, travel and rest may be the more ideal method.