A 14 year old girl and a 50 year old aunt, if they come to the clinic for the same problem: pregnancy, does not always bring you joy. God is not fair, those who want it, try their best and still can’t get it; those who don’t want it, but always have it. What I’m talking about here is getting pregnant when people think they won’t. This is not an unwanted pregnancy in the usual sense, because an unwanted pregnancy, sometimes, can be a surprise. But this time, the vast majority of people will be helpless and have to get an abortion. Pregnancy in primary and secondary school students has to be said that this is one of the side effects of the development of society. The ease with which humans can obtain the knowledge they need from various media has led to the early exposure of primary and secondary school students to the temptation of “sex”. They are not properly guided by their families and society, and they do not have the concept of contraception. Many people think that a young girl who doesn’t get her period often can’t get pregnant. The truth is, as long as you have your period, you are likely to ovulate, even if it is only once every few months. The youngest “pregnant” girl I have ever met was a junior girl, 14 years old, brought by her mother to the clinic a few years ago. She was already more than 7 months pregnant when she arrived. The little girl did not have her period and did not dare to tell her mother; her mother did not pay attention to it, thinking that her daughter had gained weight …… What happened? Because the fetus is already very large, according to the rules, can not be induced, can only go to the birth. Whether you give birth to yourself, or found early to do abortion, will bring great trauma to the little girl’s body and psyche. We will say a lot of ifs: if the mother found out earlier, if the child told the mother earlier, if there was contraception during sex, if sex did not happen, or even if sexual assault did not happen …… parents, society all have responsibilities, there are many things we can do. In this regard, the “lecturer group” of our Red House Hospital Committee has done a lot of work, often going to primary and secondary schools to give lectures and interact with each other, spreading the knowledge of adolescent sex education. I think that at least children who are properly guided should be able to avoid such tragedies. Another extreme: a 50-year-old aunt got pregnant This is also a real case that I have encountered in my clinic. The patient was 50 years old and had been having her period only once every few months for more than 2 years, but this time she had it for more than 20 days, only with a small amount of menstruation. She had been treated as menopausal gonorrhea in other clinics, but to no avail, so she came to my clinic. In this case, it is indeed easy to diagnose as menopausal hematemesis. I also thought that it could be a lesion of the endometrium and considered to do a diagnostic curettage to stop the bleeding and to help the diagnosis. However, I did follow the routine and gave her a urine pregnancy test. The result, positive! Another ultrasound, early intrauterine pregnancy, and the original fetal heartbeat was there. If only (and there are many ifs here): if this aunt was 20 years younger, if she was a patient who had been infertile for many years, if full second pregnancy was also open at that time …… In fact, this aunt told me with tears in her eyes that her daughter was already in her 20s and in college, and if she was still pregnant at that age, she would be laughed at by her relatives and friends The In the end, she chose to have an abortion. What Ngo wants to say is that, just like a young girl who has just started her period, a woman in menopause may ovulate even if her period comes only once every six months. Therefore, contraception should not be neglected during this period. I just had a baby, but I got pregnant again! It’s only been 2 months since I had my baby, I’m still breastfeeding, and I haven’t had my period yet, so I’m not sure how I got pregnant again. Many people think that this is a safe period, but in fact, ovulation may resume half a month after giving birth, so it’s not safe. The key is that if you get pregnant during this period, because the postpartum uterus has not fully recovered, the texture is soft, when doing abortions, prone to haemorrhage, or uterine perforation, the danger is great. But, maternity also has a need ah, can not help when how to do? Simple, you can contraceptive ah, did you have a baby, you forgot to have a condom such a thing! If you are breastfeeding, contraceptive pills try not to eat, may affect the breast milk. Half a month after the miscarriage and have this reasoning ditto. The beginning of the article said that some people do not want, but always have. I met the most powerful is “G12P1”, that is, 12 times pregnant, only one birth. The rest, of course, were aborted and done away with. Colleagues have also met “G20P1” …… they are the “regulars” of Planned Parenthood, practicing natural sex without contraception. But luckily, after all, they are a minority. When I was a young doctor, I sometimes had the whimsical idea that it would be perfect if the embryos from these people could be transferred to infertile patients. There are also patients with “ectopic” pregnancies who share my vision: can we transfer an embryo from outside the uterus to inside the uterus? Who knows? Maybe in a few years doctors will be able to do it. All in all, it’s rare, but not impossible. Pregnancy is not exclusive to people in their 20s and 30s. Whether you are 14 or 50, if you have had your period or are not fully menopausal, then contraception is a must. How to prevent pregnancy? You can also check out my previous “Valentine’s Day” album.