These “bad habits” in the growth of babies, many are related to the age of growth, the younger the age, the higher the frequency, generally to 1 to 2 years old, these “bad habits” will slowly disappear, but if, with the growth of age, still If you do not correct it, it may develop into an unhealthy psychology. There is a stage in the growth process when babies like to stick their hands in their mouths, or see something to send to their mouths, regardless of whether it is clean or dirty. In this regard, many mothers feel special headache. In fact, this is the period when babies learn to use their mouths to perceive things, mothers and fathers need to do is to cut the baby’s long nails short, smoothing, wash the baby’s hands a little, see him grab some dirty things to send to the mouth when you help him change some clean items. When the child is a little older, this finger eating or see what is sent to the mouth of the “bad habits” will slowly disappear. However, there are some children, because parents for their own careers, can not find time to spend with their children, ignoring the normal psychological needs of children, due to the lack of parent-child emotional comfort, the child will have to rely on the mother through other means, such as finger sucking, finger biting, nail biting, pacifier sucking, biting various items, etc., to replace the mother, over time, they will develop this bad habit, the formation of a kind of abnormal dependence The psychology. In this case, mothers and fathers should correct them in a timely manner, give more care to the child, cultivate more hobbies, participate in a variety of meaningful games to divert attention, but do not roughly stop, so as not to aggravate the child’s psychological pressure and make the phenomenon of finger biting more serious. For older children, if parents have tried everything they can to change the child’s situation, they can go to the hospital to consult a psychologist for guidance, after all, each child’s situation is very different, and some require intervention. Crawling around Crawling can be a good exercise for the baby’s movement coordination ability, will not crawl or crawl bad baby, later balance and movement coordination ability will be relatively poor. Generally speaking, the baby grows to 8 or 9 months, has learned to crawl, at this time, the baby’s range of motion becomes larger, it is the baby began to take the initiative to contact and recognize things stage, crawling to promote the development of baby cognitive ability is also very helpful. At this point, mom and dad should do, not to limit the child’s crawling, but to make an open space, mop the floor, or lay a clean mat, put some toys in front of the baby, so he can chase the toys to enjoy crawling forward. Of course, for safety reasons, it is best to keep your baby within sight of your parents during the crawling process, and at the same time, put away some items that may pose a threat to your baby’s safety. When the baby learns to walk, he or she will slowly not like to crawl on the ground. Picky and picky eating Currently, in our children, because of the poor eating habits such as picky and picky eating is still relatively common nutritional problems, children in the process of growth and development, either high and thin bean sprouts body type, or Humpty Dumpty, and even some “rich diseases” such as diabetes also come to children in advance. Therefore, in the face of the child’s picky eating problem, is also a lot of parents for the headache. So, how to correct this bad habit of picky and picky eating of children? First, parents should first understand why their children do not like to eat a certain food. There are both physiological and psychological reasons why children do not like to eat certain foods. If some children do not like to drink milk, it may be because the child is allergic to milk protein, the child will have adverse reactions such as bloating and diarrhea after drinking milk, so they do not like to drink, if it is because of this reason, we can not force him to drink, we can let the child to drink hypoallergenic milk instead, also can get similar nutrients as milk. On the other hand, children’s preference or aversion to certain foods may also be caused by psychological reasons, such as the influence of family members, parents do not like to eat, the child also follow do not like to eat, or parents see children prefer to eat something, they always give him to eat, children do not like to eat, do not dare to give him to eat, from childhood to comply with the child’s needs, over time, it has developed a picky eating The bad habits, and once this habit is formed it is difficult to change. Therefore, for this child picky eating solution, we mainly use the psychological correction method, through the parents’ language or set an example to correct, but do not force to eat, so as not to produce rebellious psychology. For example, when the child does not like to eat a particular dish, you can make a special dish at a meal, the way of cooking can be slightly changed, and then the family in front of the child first deliberately discuss “this dish today this way of cooking is really good ah” and so on, and then appropriate to ask the child: “Do you want to try it?” This is the time when parents should take the opportunity to praise the child in order to consolidate the behavior of the child to continue to eat the dish next time. Talking dirty Baby talking dirty, sometimes may just feel fun, want to attract the attention of adults, therefore, can be handled by cold treatment, such as pretending not to hear, ignore him, through this cold treatment method, let the baby feel, talking dirty does not attract the attention of adults, talking dirty is not fun, slowly, he felt bored after the natural will slowly reduce the number of dirty words. If the baby has some understanding, mom and dad can educate him through the story method, so that he knows that swearing is a bad behavior, is a behavior that will make others hate, so that he will change this problem. In addition, many of the reasons why babies learn to swear are imitated from the people they come into contact with around them. Therefore, parents should create a civilized environment for their children’s growth and set an example by not swearing in front of their babies. In short, children’s bad behavior is a variation of children’s behavior in the process of development, but has not yet constituted a disease, the correction of such bad habits need parents and teachers to cooperate with each other, first understand the causes clearly, eliminate unfavorable factors, and then correct guidance, rather than roughly stop, criticism, at the same time, parents should also cultivate more children’s interests, encourage children to participate in more meaningful activities, divert attention, eliminate At the same time, parents should also cultivate their children’s interests, encourage them to participate in more meaningful activities, divert their attention and eliminate all kinds of pressure, so that they can psychologically satisfy and comfort their children and thus eliminate bad habits.