The baby grows up day by day, from the first time to pronounce vaguely called out mom and dad, to take their own spoon to eat, from lying in the cradle every day to creeping forward, this little by little progress has brought immense joy to the family. Remind parents, some in the parents seem bad habits is actually a natural phenomenon of the baby’s development process, the mother only need to guide can, do not need to force prohibit. “Bad” habits a: with the hands of rice around one year old babies often use their hands to grab rice to eat, many parents will immediately stop this “unruly” behavior. In fact, the baby with the hands to grab rice can not only increase their familiarity with food, gradually cultivate their interest in food, but also to avoid the baby grow up into picky eaters bad habits. Eating and reading both need to slowly cultivate interest, so let your child freely touch the colors, shapes and qualities of food. Tips for moms: All moms have to do is wash their babies’ hands and let them play freely. It’s worth noting that round, hard foods like peanut kernels, popcorn, and small beans should not be grabbed by babies to avoid getting them stuck in their throats. “Bad” habits two: eating fingers baby three or four months like to suck fingers, and even all the objects within reach always love to put in the mouth to bite a bite. Psychologist Sigmund Freud called the first year after the birth of the baby “oral period”, is the first basic stage of personality development. The child tries to recognize things and perceive the world through sucking, licking and biting. Stopping a child from eating his or her hands forcefully will cast a shadow on the child’s psyche, making him or her prone to anxiety and temper tantrums when he or she grows up and lacking in a basic sense of trust and security. Tips for moms: Take your fingers out when your baby is asleep to avoid long-term finger sucking that can lead to poor teeth bite. If a seven or eight month old baby bites whatever he sees, the mom can cut the fruit into long strips for the baby to scratch and bite. More than one year old baby, mothers should be as much as possible through the hug to soothe the baby, his attention to the pictures, toys and other objects, so that they cognitively more things, to develop their brain. “Bad Habit 3: Crawling around Crawling around on the floor is dirty! Moms generally don’t like to let their babies crawl around on the floor. But crawling is the first step of the baby walking, and crawling can also strengthen the baby’s hands, eyes, waist, legs and other parts of the body coordination, can let the baby take the initiative to contact and recognize things earlier, to promote the development of cognitive ability. For the unfamiliar environment, in addition to the sense of awe, the baby will also have a strong sense of curiosity and desire to know, hope that through their own hands to explore, recognize and understand the world, self-indulgence. Mom’s tip: As long as the baby does not put his hand in his mouth after crawling, and does not grab and eat food, the mother does not have to worry too much. If you are afraid of the ground dirty will bring disease, mom can give the baby set of small hoodie. “Bad” habit four: throwing things You hand the baby toys, he did not even look at the toys thrown to the ground. When you pick it up, he throws it again. Sometimes babies catch anything to throw, water cups, spoons, rice bowls …… throwing things is actually a kind of “baby game”. The baby in the continuous repetition of the game action, to strengthen the various objects, environmental awareness, but also exercise the baby’s hand-eye coordination, for future cognitive development to lay the foundation. The eye contact and body contact between “throwing” and “picking up” satisfy the baby’s emotional needs and emotional development, and the parent-child relationship is further strengthened. Mom’s positive response to the baby’s play can in turn stimulate the baby’s positive response, giving it a sense of confidence and satisfaction. Mothers can prepare for the baby at home with different textures and colors of toys for the baby to throw and play, not only to meet the baby’s developmental needs, but also to avoid the baby to destroy the hygiene of the home and objects. These “bad habits”, if forced to stop, may be counterproductive, so mothers and fathers only need more guidance, can promote the baby’s intellectual development.