The circle of friends can often see “poor children rich women” such statements or articles, but you really understand its true meaning? Many friends feel that sons should not be given too much material from childhood, is poor, and daughters on the contrary, to be raised well, taught well, what to give what you want, in order to marry well in the future. But, is this kind of talk correct? What is the poor way to raise a child poorly? 1. The male son has tears not to lightly play. In the minds of parents, a son should learn to be strong from an early age, and should not cry when he encounters setbacks, so when a boy cries, you will often hear the words, “You are a boy, how can you cry? Like a girl.” In fact, crying is a way to vent emotions, if the child grows up with emotions repressed to the heart, we think the child’s growth will be healthy? So, whether it’s a boy or a girl, it’s a good thing to let your child cry and let out their emotions properly. 2. Boys learn logic, art and literature are learned by girls. Boys’ logical thinking is naturally superior to girls’, so it is good to train boys to learn logic, but if children are interested in art and literature, they should also be encouraged to learn, so that they can be versatile and can cultivate their emotions. 3. Boys should receive physical exercise from an early age. Some parents feel that boys need to have a strong body, strong enough to take up a home, but too much physical exercise for too young children will cause a certain degree of damage to the body, appropriate to the child to exercise to make the child strong and healthy. 4. boys can not be too mischievous. The boy is more mischievous, parents feel very hard to educate, so soft and hard not to allow the child trick or treat, but this will limit the child’s mobility. In addition, trick-or-treating children actually have great potential, parents who over-regulate their children will exploit the child’s nature, so that the child’s creativity and imagination do not play. 1. poor children, to teach children from childhood to develop good habits of thrift and frugality, not to let children have to respond to; 2. poor children, usually children encounter frustration should not be too protective, let children learn to stand up for themselves, strong to face difficulties; 3. poor children, to let children learn to take care of themselves, know how to live independently; 4. poor children, when children make mistakes, let children be duly punished, to train the child’s mental capacity; 5. To raise a child in poverty, let the child learn to be responsible from an early age, to take responsibility for mistakes and not to use any excuse to shirk responsibility; 6.