The safety of children has always been a concern for parents, but allowing children to truly learn to protect themselves is the prerequisite to ensure their safety. 1, test your child: when a stranger asks you to lead the way what to do? If someone asks you for directions on the road, you should enthusiastically point out, but in case the other party asks you to lead the way, you should be alert, even if you are very familiar with the place, even if the place is not far from your location you should not go. You can politely tell him, “Mom and Dad won’t let me go with strangers, you can go to the intersection and let the police uncle lead the way for you.” If a stranger pesters you, you can shout to get the attention of passers-by. 2, test children: you are alone at home, suddenly someone knocked on the door. You go to the door and look through the door mirror, the person knocking on the door you do not know, then you should do? ① When mom and dad are not home, you can turn on the TV or stereo equipment, which can make the bad guys think that there are people in the house and dare not do bad things. ② Never open the door to a stranger, you should lock the door in time. Just like parents at home, call out to mom and dad that someone you don’t know is knocking on the door to scare the bad guys away. ③Do not open the door to a stranger even if he says he is a repairman for coal, water, electricity, etc. or comes to collect various fees. ④If the visitor claims to be a colleague of your parents and can call you by name, you should also be alert not to open the door, but you can ask him what he wants and write it down to tell your mom and dad. ⑤ If the stranger still doesn’t leave, call a neighbor or call the police. 3. Test your children: When you are at school, senior children surround you and ask you for pocket money, and threaten to beat you if you don’t give it. What should you do at this time? ①You can’t have fear, try to say something nice and explain that you don’t have money with you to avoid a conflict. ②If they don’t eat this, tell them to go to the classroom to get the money and immediately take the opportunity to run away to report to your teacher and describe their features, looks, color of clothes, height, fat and thin so that you can find them and get them educated. If you can’t, stall for time and shout “help” when you see another adult or teacher passing by. Because if you give them money, they will blackmail you next time. ④If the location is remote and there are too many people to get away, you can give them money first. But be sure to tell your teacher afterwards and avoid going to remote places alone in the future. ⑤ When you get home from school, report what happened at school to your mom and dad so that they can help solve the problem. 4.Quiz your child: On Sunday, you were playing alone in the garden. A stranger says to you that your father has been hit by a car and is in the hospital for emergency treatment, and he wants you to go with him to see your father. What should you do at this time? ① Don’t believe his words easily, maybe he is a bad person who lies to you. ②Jot down the man’s facial features. If he has a car, also remember his license plate number. ③Continue on your way, if he is still following you, call for help while looking for a police officer and report the situation to him. ④If you can’t find the police for the time being, walk towards a crowded place. ⑤ Call home or dad’s office to make sure if something has happened to dad. 5. Test your child: What should you do if you receive a phone call from a stranger when you are at home? ①If the caller is looking for mommy or daddy, tell him that mommy or daddy is not available to answer the phone right now. Write down the time of the call, his name, phone number and message accurately. ③Don’t let that person know that you are the only one at home. ④If the stranger calls not for your parents, but to say some cheap and dirty swear words, don’t say anything to him and hang up the phone immediately. ⑤ Write down the date and time of the harassing phone call and tell your parents. ⑥If he calls again the next time you are home alone, call the police immediately. 6. Test your child: You are happily walking to school, when suddenly a mean-looking stranger asks you to get into his car, what should you do? ① Don’t panic, shout “help”, and struggle to break free. ②Run to a crowded or busy place, such as shopping malls, supermarkets, etc. and ask for help from guards or security guards. ③Tell nearby merchants or adults and ask them to help you notify your family, school or the police. ④In case you are caught in the car, although you will be scared at this time, you must remain calm and do not make any noise so as not to provoke the bad guys and make you get hurt. ⑤Try to remember the bad guy’s appearance, features, dress, age and license plate number, and remember the roads and characteristic buildings that the car passes through. ⑥If the bad guy asks for your home phone number and parents’ names, try to cooperate to meet his request so that your chances of being hurt are minimized. 7. Test your children: If you are walking alone on the road and find a suspicious stranger following you from behind, what should you do then? ①If you find yourself being followed, it is best to go to a crowded place. If there is a police station nearby, or if you see a traffic police officer directing traffic, ask the police to assist you. ②If you cannot find a police officer, you can walk to a department store or store, borrow a phone from the clerk, and ask your family to come and pick you up. ③Be careful not to be chased by bad guys into alleys or cul-de-sacs. If you run into such a situation, don’t be embarrassed to ring someone’s doorbell or yell “help”. ④ Usually you can carry a whistle with you, and when you encounter bad guys, blow the whistle hard to get the attention of passersby and scare them off. ⑤ Be careful when you go out, pay attention to what’s going on around you, and as much as possible, don’t walk alone on dark, isolated roads to avoid giving criminals an opportunity to take advantage of it. ⑥You should walk with your classmates on the way to and from school, or ask your parents to pick you up and drop you off for a period of time. 8. Test your children: If you take a cab to school and find that the driver has taken it to a road you are not familiar with, what should you do? ① Ask the driver if you are going the wrong way and explain again where you are going, don’t panic at this point. ②If you find that the situation is not right, excuse yourself to go to the toilet or do something urgent, and ask him to pull over to the side of the road. Get out of the car quickly and go to a crowded place, find a traffic cop, explain the situation and ask him to help you get home or back to school. ③If the driver continues to drive, quietly roll down the window and wait until the red light stops, then shout “Help” to the pedestrians and vehicles outside the window. It is better to sit in the back of the cab when you are alone, so that it is not easy to be controlled by the driver in case of an accident. 9. Test your children: What should you do if you are offered food by a stranger? If someone offers you something to eat, be sure to politely decline. Many bad people look very kind, but they often take advantage of children do not know the truth and greedy mouth characteristics, to lure you into their trap. They will often put drugs in the food, eat the food, you may be sleeping, the bad guys will take advantage of the opportunity to kidnap you. If you have firmly said not to eat, the other party still pester you, then shout loudly to attract the attention of the next person. 10. Quiz your child: what to do when you come home from school and find someone is stealing? If you come home after going out and find that the lock on your door has been broken, or if you find your door open and you know no one is home at the time, you should think that there may be a burglar in your house. ①This time you must not go in, and do not shout. The thief may still be in the room, and it is very dangerous to go in at this time. ②Go to a neighbor’s house and ask an adult to help you call 911, or go to a grocery store you know well and call the police for help. ③Call your mom and dad, tell them what happened, and ask them to come home quickly. ④If you find a suspicious and unfamiliar vehicle downstairs or near your door, record its license plate number, color and model features and tell the police or an adult. ⑤ It is most important to leave the house quickly to protect yourself in such an unexpected situation. 11. Quiz your child: What to do when someone wants to touch your body under your clothes? When a child reaches the age of four or five, parents should explain to their children which parts are personal private areas that no one, including people they know, has the right to touch. Even if a doctor is doing an examination, a guardian should be required to be present to supervise. This is a legitimate right of the child. If someone wants to touch a private area that mom or dad has told you about, you must say “no” firmly and leave quickly. Always tell your parents or teacher afterwards. Talk to your child about self-care and self-rescue techniques that he or she may remember at the time, but forget a little later. The only way for children to master is through role-playing and rehearsal, and after many rehearsals, they can gradually master the essentials. In family games, parents can design a variety of possible scenarios, ask their children questions, test their reflexes, and also rehearse how to maintain communication between parents and children.