Patient: He is my husband, he has always been angry in the last two years, for a very small matter, just listen to me say one or two words he immediately hair do, yelling, thunder and I argued, sometimes really feel that he is crazy, incredible. Previously not in a unit, he is usually busy contact less quarrel less, now in a company, to avoid some things to discuss, do together, so often quarrel, and each time very violent. Usually outside his temper is very good, and who do things to talk are very good attitude, even if angry will not be very angry with others, but to me completely changed a person, I feel that he is venting his anger to me outside, I can not stand it now, but do not want to divorce yet. I hope the doctor will help me to see what is wrong with him and how to solve this problem? A: Husband tantrums are often not only the husband’s problem, most of the ideas and views of both sides of the way to deal with the many psychosocial factors, life often encounter some things that do not go well or some contradictions or differences between the couple, which requires couples to live together to establish a suitable mode of interaction between the two people or called the correct mode of communication, the problems of life is constantly appearing, But as long as there is a proper way to deal with the problem is easy to solve, the couple argued, it is best that at least one of the two sides can remain calm, to be a little more stable emotions and then discuss what makes their emotions out of control? What do you really want to express? What can be done to allow communication to continue instead of arguing? Couples also need to get along with the appropriate space and distance, the closer the distance, the more conflicts, which is why you are in a unit but more than before, it is recommended that you do not bring the work relationship to the home as much as possible after work, discuss together some happy things that both sides are interested in, the following are several unhealthy way to fight couples, it is recommended to avoid as much as possible in life: 1, by any means to attack 1.Attacking the other party by any means to defeat them 2.Returning old accounts 3.Talking 4.Criticizing the other party 5.Blindly agreeing with the other party to present a superficial harmony 6.Arguing about details 7.Citing sins 8.Not understanding the meaning of the other party’s words 9.Attacking several different things in one argument 10.Giving up easily in normal communication