At present, we are in the era of rapid social development, accelerated pace of life, complex interpersonal relationships, and a large increase of stressors faced by human beings, and people’s mental burden is increasing. At the same time, environmental pollution is weakening the resistance of human body, some people cannot adapt to the changes of social environment and natural environment and adjust their mindset, which, in the long run, will easily induce a series of diseases, including tumors. Tumor patients often have more psychological disorders. After learning their diagnosis, patients will feel a serious mental shock and have a psychological stress reaction, which shows that the normal order of daily life is disrupted, depressed mood, even disorderly behavior, decreased appetite, sleep disorder, weight loss, etc.; a few patients show the contradictory emotions of “bright happiness and dark suffering”. A small number of patients show the contradictory emotions of “bright happiness and dark suffering”. The psychological state can be expressed in five stages: denial, resentment, compromise, depression, and acceptance. The first reaction of patients after learning their diagnosis is to refuse to admit that they are suffering from tumor, suspect that the diagnosis is wrong or confused with others, deny the doctor’s diagnosis, and most of them ask for review. When the diagnosis is confirmed again, patients then appear lonely psychology, start to close themselves and do not want to talk with others, they often leave their normal life and lose their social status and role, and even wander out of the society. 2. Anger period: After the denial period, patients have to face the fact of tumor, at this time they are indignant and very aggrieved, and are most likely to have inner anxiety and fear at this stage. As the fact of tumor contradicts with the desire to live, the patient is often in great pain. 3. Compromise period: After the indignation is over, the fact of tumor still exists, therefore, the patient has to admit the diagnosis psychologically. And facing the disease often appears two kinds of differentiation, one kind of patients accept the diagnosis positively, thinking that since they cannot get rid of this fate, they might as well feel more fun of life in the limited time, they often can cooperate with the treatment and care, and take the initiative to participate in social activities; the other kind of patients accept the fate negatively, thinking that they cannot fight with the fate and death is inevitable, they often alternate between anger and depression, which accelerates the tumor The process of tumor. 4.Depression period: As the disease deteriorates during the treatment process, tumor patients face the threat of pain and death, and some patients are also under the pressure of medical expenses and are upset about becoming a burden to their families. Patients often feel sad, lose confidence in treatment, and even have the idea that life is better than death. 5. Calm period: Patients not only suffer physically from surgery, chemotherapy, radiotherapy, etc., but also undergo a series of mental journey mentally. In the late stage of tumor, patients often show unusual calmness. The duration of various psychological states varies from patient to patient, and the severity of psychological reactions also varies, which is related to the patient’s cultural level, economic status, age and occupation. Patients with higher knowledge level often have a series of associations about bad prognosis, resulting in excessive psychological burden; patients with lower education level and less knowledge about tumor have lighter psychological burden than the former; elderly patients mostly have a sense of old age and death is a natural law and a kind of transcendence, so their psychological reactions are lighter; while middle-aged and young patients are not only the backbone of work but also the backbone of family, so their sense of responsibility and career drive them to worry about and be concerned. Their sense of responsibility and career drive them to have more concerns and worries, and their psychological reactions are heavier. Psychological factors can affect the treatment effect and prognosis of cancer patients. In the treatment process, drug dose, treatment effect, lesion control and survival period are proportional to the patient’s psychological status. Patients are under so much psychological pressure! As family members, how should we help them to regulate their psychology? Premier Wen Jiabao said in the Wenchuan earthquake, “As long as there is a hope, we will try a hundred times harder”. It is especially important to carry out psychotherapy. Psychotherapy is the use of human psychological activity to produce positive effects on the physiological and biochemical processes in the body, and to promote the patient’s progress toward healing. By improving the patient’s confidence, generating cheerful, joyful emotions and an optimistic, positive spirit, which in turn improves the body’s immune function and ability to resist disease, the function of various tissues and cells in the body is restored to normal through adjustment, and the coordination between various organs tends to be restored. Behavior therapy for tumor patients: Behavior therapy, also known as behavior correction, is mainly to establish new proper behaviors through behavior and training to correct and replace the old, abnormal behaviors. For tumor patients, it is to form new habits that are favorable to the recovery of tumor patients. The main aspects are as follows: 1. Changing bad habits in the process of tumor occurrence and development and many bad habits, changing these bad habits has an important influence on the recovery of tumor patients. For example, smoking has a certain relationship with malignant tumor, not only the risk of disease increases, but also can aggravate the patient’s condition, so patients with lung malignant tumor should quit smoking. Alcohol can cause erosion, ulceration and even bleeding of the mucous membrane of the digestive tract, so patients with esophageal, gastric and hepatic malignant tumors should give up alcohol. Tumor patients should try to avoid mental and emotional stimulation, pay attention to weather changes, prevent colds and respiratory infections, exercise appropriately, prevent overexertion, and eat a nutritious and easy-to-digest diet with warmth, so as not to affect the digestion of gastrointestinal tract by too cold or too hot. 3.Learn to observe the condition of tumor patients should understand the basic medical knowledge about their disease, especially the side effects of drugs, so as to make a self-judgment of the possible condition, so that timely diagnosis and treatment can be made. 4.Conduct normal family life Normal family life can regulate the mental state of tumor patients and help patients to serve the tumor itself and the mental trauma caused by its treatment, which can relieve the tension, reduce the patient’s isolation, improve the patient’s quality of life, and also facilitate the patient’s recovery. Relaxation therapy for tumor patients: Relaxation therapy is mainly for tumor patients to use progressive physical and mental relaxation method, music therapy, qigong, taijiquan and other methods, or watch relaxing and pleasant cultural performances and TV programs to relieve their psychological pressure, ease their mental tension and overcome mood swings, so as to promote patients’ recovery. When you have time, you can go to the seaside, mountainous areas or tourist attractions for vacation or convalescence, which is also very beneficial to patients. The patient not only relaxes physically and mentally, but also cuts off the vicious cycle of fear and tension to the body and improves the immunity of the organism. In fact, qigong and taijiquan exercise is an excellent method of relaxation, which can eliminate the patient’s bad mood and relax the body and mind, thus facilitating the patient’s recovery. However, it should be pointed out here that relaxation is not a way to do nothing, talk to friends, drink wine or tea, or spend time, although there is no lack of these in life. But the intention of relaxation therapy is to eliminate distractions, mobilize positive factors in all aspects of the body, and combine with beliefs to achieve the purpose of defense and destruction of malignant tumor cells. Music therapy for tumor patients: Music therapy method is through listening and enjoying music to cause the human body’s psychophysiological state to change and produce the emotional response of excitement or inhibition, so as to achieve the therapeutic effect. Each session should last 60 minutes, with no repetition and the volume below 70 decibels. For insomnia, choose “Two Springs Reflecting the Moon”, “Spring River Moonlight”, “Cold River Moon” and various lullabies, etc.; for dizziness, weakness, fatigue and loss of strength, choose “Liang Zhu”, “Chasing the Moon”, Debussy’s orchestral piece “The Sea”, etc.; for nervousness and agitation, choose “Jiangnan Silk Song”, “Cold Duck Playing in the Water”, “Swan Lake The song of spring, etc.; the song of spring, etc.; the song of spring, etc.; the song of spring, etc.; the song of spring, etc. Imagination therapy for tumor patients: The so-called imagination therapy is to establish the confidence and courage to fight with the disease, and to establish the belief of certain victory in the mind, and this belief is constant. Through imagination, patients can increase the number of immune cells in their body and improve their immune system to effectively inhibit the progress of the disease. The principle may be that through imagination, a fixed-channel connection is established between the brain and the body’s immunity, creating a focal point of excitement that is beneficial to the body, thereby reducing invisible mental stress and promoting physical and mental health. Currently, imagination therapy has become a necessary prescription for the treatment of malignant tumors, and it has received good results. After the whole body muscles are relaxed, then carry out imaginative imagination, such as imagining pleasant emotions, imagining beautiful natural landscapes, imagining beautiful pictures, etc.. You can also imagine that the tumor cells in your body are very fragile and chaotic, something that can be easily broken like bread. Immune cells are a powerful army, they have endless numbers and great power, they soon find the tumor cells and destroy them quickly, the tumor gradually shrinks and is eliminated from the body. Psychological support from family members to patients and precautions: The psychological support from family members to tumor patients is of great significance in the recovery process of tumor patients. The following points should be noted when giving psychological support to family members: 1. Family members should keep communicating with patients emotionally. Take the initiative to get close to the patient, be good at observing the non-verbal information of the patient, such as dressing, gestures, expressions, etc., to understand the psychological state of the patient. Often care and greeting, and give the patient spiritual encouragement in time. 2, appropriate eye contact with the patient, there should be genuine emotion in eye contact, eliminate the patient’s worry, can reduce the patient’s sense of abandonment and loneliness. 3, generally patients are sitting or lying on the bed, family members and patients to communicate, do not stand but to sit in front of the patient’s bed, in order to reduce the patient’s feeling of condescension to the family. 4. Do not show negative emotions during the communication process, do not talk too much about the patient’s condition, and do not estimate the patient’s survival period. You can ask the doctor to specify the patient’s condition and requirements in order to eliminate the patient’s confusion about the disease and treatment. Family members should provide correct guidance to the patient. Establish their correct outlook on life and values, and treat the disease with optimism, so that they can revive their spirits, strengthen their courage, and better cooperate with doctors for treatment. 5.When the patient has negative emotion, if the positive guidance is not effective, the patient should ask the psychiatrist to guide the patient to relax in time, so as to eliminate the influence of negative factors on the patient’s heart, mobilize the resistance ability of the body, and promote the reversal and recovery of tumor patients. In conclusion, psychological factors are an important force. Negative factors can contribute to the development of tumor, while positive psychological factors can prevent tumor, prolong the survival of tumor patients, and even cure it.