Every mother is paranoid about being persecuted. As long as you are a mother, you dare to say that you have not worried – the child was carried away, snatched, stolen and lost or whatever. In a mother’s life, which of the above “away” one can not appear. The moment a child is lost, the world seems to collapse. In real life, if there is such a story, it may be more cruel than the dramatic effect. This is why Mango Mom suddenly wanted to talk about this issue today. Sometimes many problems do not happen before we feel we can handle them calmly, but afterwards they are often chaotic. In fact, I myself have experienced to let the father wait for the child to go to the toilet, and then the child came out to find us, did not see the father. At that time, I was really anxious, but fortunately there was no danger. But it also shows that a lot of issues, you have to repeatedly emphasize with the child and yourself! Here are some notes for all moms. 1, before leaving home in the child’s pocket to put an anti-loss card This method, for talking and non-speaking children are applicable. I read the article before, said to children wearing bright clothes, I took my children to the mall when observed, many children will wear the same color clothes, when there are many people, a little farther away, it is impossible to distinguish which is their own children. The anti-loss card can facilitate the child to take out the initiative to help, but also to facilitate the rescuer to contact the child’s family. 2, teach children to remember their parents, grandparents, grandma and grandpa’s phone Mangos baby can talk, we began to consciously train him to remember my father’s and my phone, accurate, we slowly let him remember the grandmother’s home landline phone. This helps the rescuer to quickly contact the parents. For older children, you can also take a simple functioning cell phone with you when you go out, and teach him to find a safe, exactly describable location to pluck a family member’s phone if he and his family get lost. 3. Teach your child to remember the signs and buildings near your home For street numbers like this, your child may not be able to remember at once. But for so-and-so neighborhood, so-and-so building, so-and-so restaurant, children may remember faster, so let children remember their homes live near which landmarks, can quickly help the police uncle to contact family members. 4, always tell the child which people are trustworthy Because the environment is different, the object of being able to ask for help is also different. Little Mango is not yet 3 years old, the ability to distinguish is limited, but take him to the mall, I will consciously tell him here is the service desk, in case you can not find mom and dad, you can find the aunt wearing a red hat here; into the mall will let him and security greetings, tell him to wear this kind of clothes uncle will provide him with help. Usually when he walks on the road, when he meets police, traffic police, soldiers, police officers, even in the subway station, I will tell him which personnel can help him, one more knowledge, one more hope when the accident happens. Of course, if the chain of aid stations is true, I will tell him the same, here is also safe, can not find the family, you can go in to find aunts and uncles to help call mom and dad’s phone. 5, when necessary to the child on the back of the anti-wandering schoolbag Little Mango is not generally active, in her more than a year, I took him out alone, will let her carry the anti-wandering schoolbag. Although occasionally accused of “limiting” the child’s freedom, but compared to the child’s personal safety, this little sacrifice I think it is worth. 6, intelligent positioning wear on the body For the larger baby, already know a lot of things, for strangers also have a certain concept, but in the time of travel, it is also easy to happen to be abducted by human traffickers, parents still need to be vigilant. This time it is time to give the baby some more intelligent equipment, such as positioning watches, anti-loss shoes, etc., to give the baby more than one protection, mamas more than one peace of mind, of course, or to avoid going to places where there is a lot of foot traffic is better. The following points parents must do 1, usually with children, pay attention to the habit of not accepting food and gifts from others, including the street kind of sweeping code gift, fill out the form to send a gift, do not let the child feel that it is okay to accept things from strangers; 2, especially when going out, especially when more people go out, be sure to assign a person specifically to watch over the child. Accidents often do not happen when a person goes out with a child, but when a group of people gather. He thought you were watching the child, you thought he was watching the child, the result was a mistake; 3, at home and child interaction, more critical situation drills. Smaller babies, the race to memorize family phone numbers; older babies, practice plucking family numbers as well as 110, 119, 120 and other phones; Finally, I want to say that no parent wants this to happen to them. So, it is important to prevent it before it happens. In case something like this does happen, adults must stay calm, not mess up, and do everything they can to get to the child, the sooner the better.