Your mom was eating at a restaurant at noon, and there was a mother and son sitting at the next table. The little boy dropped his spoon on the floor and wanted another one, the mother pointed to the cashier not far away and said gently, “Baby, go to the auntie and ask for one yourself!” The little boy turned his head, scanned up in the direction his mother pointed, and reluctantly whispered, “Gee mom, go get it for me!” After the little boy had been stumped three or five times, the mother finally broke out and stood up and yelled fiercely, “There it is! You can’t see what? This little shit look like you bothered!” Looking at the little boy pouting a face of confusion from my side, I quickly reminded him: “from the red table in front of the right turn can see!” The little boy looked at me with a smile on his face and darted over to get a spoon and came back. You see, the little boy was not really averse to getting a spoon himself, but why was he reluctant to do so at first? I guess you can see, because according to the mother’s description, the little boy does not know where to take the spoon. With a height of less than 1 meter, the boy saw only tables and chairs and noisy people, and he didn’t understand why “there” sounded so easy to his mother. We always take for granted what our children should do from an adult perspective, which is why we feel our children are “misbehaving”; and we rarely consider that our demands are often unreasonable from a child’s perspective. Parents want to solve these, in fact, there is a wonderful way – squat down. 1, squat down, only to find that the child’s world is really different My little Yu especially do not like shopping malls, especially during the New Year’s holidays. At first I was surprised, children do not love the hustle and bustle? Until once I squatted down in the mall to choose products, looking up at the moment I realized that in the eyes of children, all they see is a pair of legs in addition to the shelves, which makes children feel nervous, depressed, so they will clamor to go home. So, the next time the child suddenly nervous and irritable, please do not get angry and reprimand the child, you may wish to squat down, from the child’s height to look around the environment, may indeed find some of the factors that make the child feel very unhappy, and then properly resolved. 2, squat down, so that not to “stand and talk not waist pain” We know that when talking to each other to make eye contact, is the most basic social etiquette. But when we are dissatisfied with our children, often a condescending posture, a series of criticism, and then scolded a “I said you listened to it did not? Not even a squeak”. The next time you criticize your child, I advise you to crouch down, because you can only judge whether your criticism is effective for your child through his or her expressions, and whether you have hit the nail on the head. Sometimes you will find that the child’s eyes are actually full of panic, your a number of the child overwhelmed, he also dare to squeak a voice to admit your mistakes? 3, squat down, in fact, you are not so angry Some things are really strange, one moment you are still angry with the child, the next moment you squat down, only to find that the mood is not so bad. Perhaps the child’s pitiful little face resolved the anger in his heart, or perhaps the body weight down to bring a change in mood, either way, it is ultimately conducive to the solution of the problem. When you squat down to about the same height as the child, the child’s heart worry, panic will also be relieved, so the child is more likely to tell you the truth from the bottom of his heart. Mediocre parents, when tying their children’s shoes squat, like a slave; when dissatisfied with the child condescending, like a tyrant who turns the other cheek. Excellent parents, standing to help children dress themselves, so that children feel independent; in the dissatisfaction of children, squatting to listen, communication, so that children feel equal, honest.