1. Poor parenting will make children lose their generosity and decency. Children who are raised poorly will have low self-esteem because they are not as good as others in one way or another. They are both introverted and timid; they don’t even dare to socialize with other children. When they grow up, they will show constraint or even feel inferior in front of their peers, they dare not show their own light, their inner inferiority feels unworthy, and only by shutting themselves up in a small space can they find a tiny bit of ease. A poor upbringing to learn from others, will make the child lost generosity and decency. 2, poor upbringing will make the child lost pattern. A lot of people say that “the poor will get poorer, the rich will get richer”, the reason why poor people are poor is because their parents give their children a set, this set is called “pattern”. Our poor children will spend 2 hours walking to their destination in order to save 2 dollars, but what do rich children do? What do rich kids do? They spend 20 bucks on a cab to save 2 minutes on a 2 hour walk. That’s the pattern! Our poor children may spend their time on something that doesn’t add value to them in order to save a few cents a day, whereas richly raised children they have more time and opportunities to reach out to the world. 3, poor raising will make the child lose the temperament. Many times we can judge a person’s origin from what they wear, say and do. Why is it that some children look like they have the temperament to be educated, but some children look like they are vulgar? The temperament of a child is permeated from the bone marrow and is a symbol of the family environment and upbringing. This temperament comes from the child’s self-esteem and self-confidence. Just as a poor person living in a caged home in Hong Kong said, “I have to work hard every day for$50 Hong Kong dollars for three meals a day, and we do not have any dignity or dreams to speak of. Children brought up in a poor environment are more likely to pursue materialistic gratification; they do not have the energy or the opportunity to pursue higher things. How can children raised under poverty turn over a new leaf? Only when their achievements in life such as study or work overshadow their low self-esteem can they slowly find self-confidence and then turn over a new leaf, but how many children raised in poverty can be such lucky ones? A recent article in Psychology Today magazine expresses the same point of view – it’s hard to turn around a poorly raised child! Children in stressful environments also become unusually sensitive to people and events around them, and are reluctant to participate in social activities. This psychological pressure hinders intellectual development, affects academic performance, and, most obviously, inhibits the desire to learn and explore the world. As a China that is only just beginning to move towards affluence, many of us have tried our hand at poverty, and we have tasted the low self-esteem that comes with it. We also know how much effort we have used to overcome this sense of inferiority ourselves. These efforts may include making money so frantically that we forget why we are making money. Also the prevalence of money worship in our society may be due in large part to the imbalance of wealth in our society. But the fact that families have gone astray in their education about money and have moved towards what is known as poor parenting is also a big part of the reason, isn’t it? Please don’t continue this mistake if you can! Many of us have actually fallen into this evil, don’t let the next generation continue this mistake as well. Education, therefore, should not be taken to extremes.