Get rid of the misconception: there are many benefits for both parties when children sleep in separate beds from their mothers at an early age. The old belief is that all babies should sleep next to their mothers so that the child sleeps warmly and the mother can feed and nurse the fluid easily. In fact, there are many benefits to bed-sharing. You can put a crib next to the adult bed, and it’s easy to carry your child over when he or she is breastfeeding. Now many babies will sleep with diapers, except for poop, usually pee without changing diapers, so bed-sharing will not bring a lot of inconvenience to the mother. The specific benefits of bed-sharing for newborns and mothers are: 1. The skin of newborns is delicate and easily infected. It is easy to keep the environment clean and avoid infection when the child sleeps alone in a crib. The quilts, bedding and sheets of the crib are small and easy to dismantle and disinfect, which is very important to protect the delicate skin of the newborn. 2, bed sharing can bring safety and warmth to the child, and the mother can rest better. Newborns don’t turn over on their own, and adults inevitably have to turn over a lot when they sleep, which can crush the child if they’re not careful. We have seen a child being smothered by his mother with a quilt I lack of oxygen in the back of the brain, the brain development of a small circle, is likely to affect intelligence. 3, bed sharing can make the mother in the limited time to rest better, do not need to often worry, a moment afraid of pressing the child, a moment afraid of smothering the child, a moment afraid of the covers are not covered, so that their own sleep is not solid. 4, bed sharing is the beginning of training children’s independence. The development of independence and parents’ concepts and education methods have a lot to do with the speed. Bed-sharing can play a role in promoting the development of children’s independence. 5, the crib is flexible, easy to move, you can often change the direction and hang some toys on the crib to promote the further development of visual and auditory sense of the little baby. Warm tips 3-4 months old baby can start to learn to sleep by themselves. If your baby falls asleep while feeding, you should wake him up and put him to bed when he wakes up so that he can fall asleep by himself. The purpose of doing this is to separate the experience of eating and drinking from sleeping, and as your baby matures, you can develop the habit of eating and sleeping separately.