A, irritable father move to beat, move to scold. 6 years old children under the age of such a father, will certainly become more and more not live clean, the more not the more do not talk, the child is not that completely can not play, touch the principles of the Fan should play, such as children play with electricity, play with fire, steal things, such things will hurt the life and affect the life should be severely beaten once. But hitting a child should never hurt the child, and can not often hit, and to hit justified. The child’s psyche is very fragile, parents are his most trusted people, by the most trusted people to the most cruel treatment, you say the child’s psyche is not traumatized? So never hit anything, later if you feel that the child control up disobedience, as long as it is not a matter of principle, do not use violence, try cold treatment, put him alone there, everyone ignore him, so he will also know is wrong. Second, the father who smokes When you light a cigarette, have you ever thought about the fact that cigarettes produce more than 3,000 compounds after burning, most of which are harmful to health, such as tar, nicotine, carbon monoxide, pyridine, etc. The impact of these toxins on the fetus and the little one cannot be ignored. The pleasure dad gets from smoking comes at the expense of the baby’s health, and unknowingly, the baby becomes a second-hand smoker. The toxins brought by dad’s smoking can induce anorexia in the child, make the child prone to asthma, increase the chances of lower respiratory tract infections in the baby, affect intellectual development, live in a smoky home environment, and increase the likelihood of acute or chronic otitis media in the baby. Some parents often give their children some special treatment, so that the child is superior at home, what is the child first, but also easily meet the child’s material requirements, so that the child life Lazy, do not need the child to do any housework at all. Sometimes they don’t take care of their children and are generous with their pocket money. The child who grows up under such coddling can be motivated? Can they live independently? Can they think of others? Can you be successful in the future? A girl of marriageable age said she was in high school when her father had an affair, and she witnessed her father and mother arguing endlessly. Now, she should be the age of marriage, but she refused to get married. She said that men are just like their fathers, and that the world is black. Today’s social phenomenon, the male side of the female cheating is not an uncommon thing, sometimes for the sake of the children in the maintenance of the whole family, a thousand years to repair the same bed pillow, do not easily say divorce. But if there really are no feelings to better divorce, at least a short pain, but after the divorce must be responsible for the child, so that she at least the growth process is normal. Five, forever absent dad parents meeting, sports, pick up and drop off never appear, which will make the child feel very humiliated, will slowly lose confidence. The busy dad should also properly accompany the child, do not just work on weekends, do crafts with the child, see a movie, cook a meal for the child, I believe his growth will be of great help.